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Friday, February 27, 2026

MOVING CONFIDENTLY FORWARD; Coalinga-CA


Holland has made plans to have us on the road by March 1st (more likely, tomorrow afternoon sometime); so, Blog & FB posts ✍️💻 will be on hold 🔌 until we reach our final destination sometime in the coming week.

This morning, before I even enjoyed my morning coffee - I did a lower body workout 🧘🏽☕️: my goal 📌 is to keep my body as flexible 💪 as possible, and my mind 🧠 as sharp as possible; as I move deeper into my golden years. There's a generational myth that getting older means getting decrepit;  there is no truth ❌ in that belief! The fact is, that a lot of the symptoms people associate with old age - such as muscle weakness & loss of balance, are more accurately associated with inactivity 🥔, not age.

Physical exercise can improve more than your physical health: it can also boost cognitive function, & help you maintain your independence and way of life. If you stay strong and agile 💃 as you age, you'll be more able to keep doing the things you enjoy: and less likely to need help.

Legs are powerhouses. Not only do they help women look good in dresses 👗, skirts, shorts, leggings, and our jeans 👖 … they move us around without the need for any other means of transportation - no matter what age you are. The Darebee Lean Legs workout is designed to target quads, hamstrings, and supportive muscle groups to improve leg tone and function - and it is safe for a 69 year old woman to do:

Muscles Used.

Then, we both tackled our assigned tasks 🎯 - assigned, because my husband has very clear drawn lines about gender roles 🦁 in marriage: he tends to the outside tasks & I take care of the interior business.

We will need to remind each other 💬 many times, "No matter what I say under pressure 🤬 - I love you 💘"

Holland will be feeling immense pain ⚡️🔥, and I will be feeling overwhelmed 🤦🏻‍♀️ when he moves the [goal post] to alleviate some of that pain; I understand the pain (Bob lived with pain the entire 44 years we were married) - I understand the necessity of changes … but sudden, spur-of-the-moment changes mess with my routine 😱 and focus 🤨 in the moment. When pressure is added, to be on the road to clear as much freeway as possible before we can hold over at least a day's time; tempers 😡 can quickly escalate. 9 hours on the road 🚘🗺️ from Coalinga-CA to Redding-CA (the goal post of the moment) is going to be poking the last nerve in Holland's pain level: and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he will blow straight through Redding & push on at least to Eugene 🚘⛽️🏔️ before calling Uncle (an additional hour); and looking for a place to park Independence overnight.

His thoughts 🤔 are already on the escalated pain level 😟

My thoughts are already on thinking of ways to de-escalate the snarkiness, without morphing into bitch mode 🤷‍♀️, myself.


And sleep will be fleeting because our minds won't shut off until we reach point the goal point.

Weather concerns 🌦️❄️will continue to be an issue the further we move northward, as the weather patterns are still unstable with unseasonable activity continuing from CA to WA 😒

It's a good thing we know that Elohim ☝️ will be sending Guardian Angels 💥 to travel with us 👍

We are both hoping 🤞 and praying 🙏 Holland can get some kind of pain relief ⚕️ when we reach our final destination. There is a pain clinic in Vancouver. Please God, let us find the solutions You have already prepared for us 📌; and lead us 👣 confidently to it.

Thursday, February 26, 2026

CALMING BALANCE; Coalinga-CA

Ten years After - 'I'd Love To Change The World' Lyrics:  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYNmOy-krSw)

I tuned into a couple subscription sites 💻🎧this morning while drinking my coffee ☕️ ... and the topic is the same on every single podcast: you would get the feeling that turkarlson is the only topic worth talking about 🙄

Shalom In Messiah Interview - Will America Survive a MAGA Shift? | Karys Rhea:  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhgQnKkdGAQ)

And of course, hearing the panic & doomsday quiver in everyone's voice, I had to add my 2 cents 😉

{{I watched the carlson-Huckabee interview yesterday, and MPO is that Huckabee handled carlson's barbs very well - it was carlson that ended up frustrated, angry, and off balance. I think Huckabee was smart in keeping the politics low-key; in being the adult in the room, Huckabee was able to keep his responses on topic, and brat carlson couldn't rattle him. Huckabee clearly won whatever battle carlson thought to wage - he didn't chase after carlson to justify any accusation hurled at him. Huckabee rerouted the topic back ON topic, and took control of the way his replies were given. I, personally, believe carlson has had a break with reality … either that, or he is totally demon possessed; whatever the case, it is clear he is soul dead, a narcissistic whiner, and a snarky combater without understanding the ins and outs of the political warfare, or the narrative word games he foolishly engages in. Gossip is not "facts" - and carlson is fueled by gossip. There is no credibility with carlson. I also think this carlson derangement syndrome is not beneficial: Christians should not go down the same rabbit hole the obamanites have fallen into with their trump derangement syndrome. In giving carlson so much attention - especially in trying to figure his twisted mind out, you are playing into his hands: it gives him another complaint to whine about: which keeps attention on him. SMOTHER that attention by NOT focusing on his snarkiness. Better yet, make him irrelevant by totally ignoring him. Yes, Olivier, I agree that the muslim influx into Texas is a very calculated move in their plan to infiltrate and overtake America. Texas is the lone ranger State that in today's America KEEPS American values alive and on target. The muslims that have flooded America are setting up strategic strongholds from coast to coast: hopefully Trump can reign them in - but with paula white having his ear, I'm not convinced; paula white is a charlatan & that Office of Ministry in the White House could very well lead to disastrous fallout if democrats gain another White House seating of another Manchurian candidate lemming. barak hussain obama is the democrat puppet master & he has shown himself to be a rabid muslim devotee, despite being a homosexual. America is in a very bad place right now. Our only hope is a winged prayer, Elohim's Hand of protection, and Yeshua's gracious salvation. To look to man, ANY man, is futile.}}

Then, I switched to Dave Rubin's, "The Rubin Report" - and calmly worked through my WIP sts, while shaking my head 🤨 at the continual demonrat dribble 😈🤬 that never seems to end in DC 🤦🏻‍♀️

The Rubin Report - Screaming, Yelling & Outrage as Dems Fall in Trump’s SOTU Trap: 
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHtXg9xFNyQ)
This is all the obamanite demon rats have to offer … this is pathetic childishness that serves no real purpose. This type of crass behavior dishonors America. There is not a shed of decency in any democrat, today. They are asses - acting like asses.

Holland patiently waited my back and forth, 2-row black stripe, out … then said, "Let's go for a drive." YES, PLEASE - a calming, balancing drive, is just the ticket.

There as no destination in mind, just a sunny day outing 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 

While Holland nipped into the Minit Mart to grab a Red Bull, I watched Shania - the poor little thing has never once been walked around the Park parameter; she's been behind that fenced enclosure the whole time we've been here, and longer than that:

Backside of The Almond Tree Oasis RV Park; Coalinga-CA~Shania is in the background.
The RV Park's resident miniature horse - Shania.

We ended up crossing the freeway and driving a frontage backroad looking for an overpass we have been wondering about & saying "we should check that out and see where it goes" ever since we got here the end of August 2025.

Today we decided to scratch that itch 👏 - looping back to Independence: we never did find a way over the overpass we could clearly see. We came to a road that looked to be in the general vicinity … but access was denied because the area was private property. I know that doesn't make sense, but that's the way it is. Holland thinks that the purpose for the overpass ended, the land was sold & turned onto a orchard; and it's now another one of calimexarabia's access to nowhere.

But, it was a fun drive anyway 😊: and we drove roads we've not been on before today, and saw scenery we hadn't seen before today:

We enjoyed a nice 1-1/2-hr. 'county mile' drive through orchards, open fields, frontage roads, & backcountry highways.
Crossing over CA-41 from Kettleman City-CA to Avenal-CA
Avenal-CA from Kettleman City-CA via CA-41 & CA-33

Back on home turf, we stopped at the chuck wagon parked in the Minit Mart's parking lot, and bought Supper 🌮 - this is something else we had been curious about.

Can't pronounce it … but it was delish!

We also had a package waiting for us at the Office; so, I walked over to retrieve it 👣🛎️

Tomorrow will be our last full Day here. We're pulling out Saturday afternoon:

We'll be pulling out, and onto the freeway on the 28th.

The Park has filled up since Monday - and our space won't be vacant  long, after we're on the freeway:

That's Independence (US) behind the Agave plant; this is a popular Park - our spot is already booked for a new customer as soon as we pull out, Saturday.

I'm not excited to be heading northward 😑 … but, my road gypsy spirit is excited to be on the move, again, for a calming balance 😁

Wednesday, February 25, 2026

MY FAVORITE WEATHER IS BIRD CHIRPING WEATHER; Coalinga-CA

My favorite kind of weather isn’t measured in degrees, it’s measured in birdsong 🎶 Open windows - open doors; gentle breezes, and that sweet little chorus outside that makes everything feel hopeful and brand new 🌞🌸

The chirping is loud today - I LIKE!

The moon also, was gracing us with it's appearance 😊

The moon looks very clear against the blue sky here @ The Almond Tree Oasis RV Park, Coalinga-CA

And, I listened to Victor, tonight while working a few crochet rows - because I am a deep thinker & a history enthusiast, I enjoy these discussions. If it were possible, it would be fun to have face-to-face in-depth talks with these guys 😉

Victor Davis Hanson: Cancer Test UPDATE, Jesse Jackson’s Checkered Past: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L_zuHiz0VhM)

THE CARLSON-HUCKABEE INTERVIEW~My Take Away; Coalinga-CA

Slanted Interview - in which carlson shone very badly, in.

February 24th: I was curious about all the internet buzz 🤔 surrounding the carlson-Huckabee sit down. I wanted to be fair in my assessment of the interview content 💻🎧

First, I gave an ear to the John Haller Roundtable discussion 👂, while I worked on my WIP's ongoing growth, caught a glimpse of the sunset over Coalinga 👀, ate supper 🌮 & got the dishes done …

Israel Update with Karys Rhea: 
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4CbsLIvPEbU&t=3878s)
Finally at the halfway point for this afghan undertaking …
Sunset~6 PM; Coalinga-CA

Listening to John & Karys, I couldn't imagine an angry Huckabee - a snarky, bear-poking phishing carlson … yes; but an angry Huckabee? 🤷‍♀️

My curiosity was further piqued.

So, I scrolled YouTube for the heralded vid; and gave that a listen … which limped agonizingly slowly 🐢 into the midnight hour ⏰🦉

Tucker Confronts Mike Huckabee on America’s Toxic Relationship With Israel:  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XS7itdfgNnU)

I listened to the entire click-bait "interview" - a nearly 3-hour long diatribe 🤦🏻‍♀️ where it was very clear from the get-go 🤨 that carlson was angling for an argument 😈 He started off with a petulant whine about being misunderstood … and quickly morphed into an anti-Semitic dialog with a deliberate & hostile attack 💩 on Huckabee - personally; systematically 👹 going after Huckabee on every level 😳, in what can only be described as a character attack. carlson kept saying, "I just want to understand" 🤥 - which was a lie, because it was quickly obvious that he was there with knives out 🤡, hoping to draw first blood.

For Huckabee's part, he held steady 😇: he never retaliated by responding with ire - instead, he kept his voice calm 🕊️, and responded with constructive communication ✌️, as an adult would, to de-escalate a toddler's temper tantrum. For every character assassination knife swipes carlson took at him 😵‍💫, maliciously poisoned by gossipy misinformation 😤: Huckabee politely dodged the knife point & answered the barbed accusations with facts - actual real time facts, as well as documented Historical facts, and sometimes Biblical facts ☝️ ✝️📖  when carlson, in full-blown-snits, pushed those buttons.

Watching carlson's behavior 🤨 (facial expressions, exasperated angst, his seated twitching, the occasional blush when Huckabee's gentle admonishments hit home, ect.) & listening to carlson's rabid, teeth baring, dogged arguments 🤬🥊 … it was obvious to me that carlson has had a break with reality 🤪, possibly following a stroke he's not aware of having experienced - which could explain his volatile anger issues (which he openly admitted to having), as well as the obvious cognitive decline. The carlson highlighted in this shoddy, manipulative, demonically-inspired interview, is not the same carlson he was during his FOX host years. Or … maybe he is, and the mask has just fallen totally off, allowing his erratic behavior & his extreme bully tactics to strongly show forth 👺

For my part, it was a 2-3/4 hour struggle 🥱 to sit through & listen to - but I was curious 🙄 about all the internet buzz surrounding the carlson-Huckabee sit down. I wanted to be fair in my take away.

So, I listened 💻🎧

I came to my own conclusions 🧐 Huckabee was right to keep responses 🎯 level-headed, calm, and on-target - a lot of people took offense that he didn't meet carlson's anger with umbrage. Huckabee was correct in dismissing carlson's flighty crassness with calm, collective, cognitive responses: Huckabee was the adult in the room 🙏 carlson is waaaaay out of his depth 🌊 concerning the issues he doggedly 🥴 kept flinging around, honing in for "the kill" moment. My conclusions are this: carlson relys on gossip 🌐📣 to fuel his jets. carlson has some pretty horrifying religious beliefs 😈 carlson has some pretty scary political leanings 😡 carlson thinks bully tactics 🥊 & snarky, petulant responses 👹 are "ethical & intelligent" ways to conduct himself. carlson is, without a doubt, self-deluded (a psychological break by which to preserve self-esteem & avoid uncomfortable truths) & 100% self-retarded 🤡 (characterized by significant limitations in intellectual functioning and adaptive behavior) in thought, deed, and action. carlson actually came across to my way of thinking as someone so completely fueled by hatred, that he is now demonically inspired & motivated 🤯

I posted this comment ✍️ following the carlson content of the video he posted for the world to see & judge 🎞️💻🌐:

{{So - right off the bat: when an interviewer has to try to explain why he's "coming off as a jerk" - it's because he IS a jerk. Tucker, you really need to get a life. Step away from the mic. Stop the hate speak. GROW UP. I had listened to your snarky twaddle for all the years you were on FOX, because occasionally you would say something that did not revolve around you; but when you became entirely too full of yourself & were given the boot, you ramped up your nastiness. One thing is abundantly clear concerning this devilish attack towards Huckabee … YOU are NOT "one of God's People": God's People understand God's connection, preservation, and protection of the Jews. They are in Israel, because that is where God wants them - doesn't matter what you want, or what you think about the situation. YOU ARE NOT GOD. Thank God. I can't even work up anger at your shamelessness in the wickedness of your character you highlighted in this interview. I believe you are soul dead. I just feel sorry for you. I would tread very carefully if I were you concerning God & the Jews.}}

carlson is not "a Christian" in any way, shape, or form 😱 … he should not put himself forward as a spokesperson 📣❌ for Christians: by his own admission in the video he posted, he does "not understand" 🧠🎈 the simple basics of Christianity ✡️✝️📖 - let alone the historical significance of Christianity's roots. carlson is, by example of his mindset, speech, and black heart motives; more accurately aligned with islam 😈, which suits his new home & community location - in Qatar, a “terror state,” with close ties to Hamas 👹: a Jew hating 🤬, American hating 😡 assassination organization. I'm stumped to rectify how buying a home in an American hating muslim country, is a chosen way to prove you are "a patriotic red-blooded American" 🦅 committed to "my country - which is America!"

carlson is not a moral person - despite his claims to be so 🍋 A moral person is not consumed by a misguided self-grandiose hatred that motivates their entire being 💩

carlson is not an American Patriot in any way, shape, or form. American Patriots understand the Judeo-Christian foundation of America's Constitution 📜 - the fact that this truth flies right over the top of carlson's empty head 🤯, is very telling.

Tuesday, February 24, 2026

BEAUTY & THE BEAST/Self care 2026; Coalinga-CA

Today unfolded beautifully 😁

I got up prepared to start getting things prepared for moving Wednesday … but when I staggered downstairs, shielding my eyes from the bright sunlight pouring into the livingroom from the open front door, Holland said, "Don't bother doing anything today - there's another storm blowing in; the pineapple express. So, We'll sit tight until March 1st."

I bit my tongue from blurting out, "Yippie!" But Holland wasn't fooled. He said, "I know you're pleased, but we have got to be on the move on the 1st, no matter what."

And I know he's anxious to be on the move northward: his knees are very painful, and he needs to get some relief - CA will not honor his WA Insurance coverage. And truth be told, I am getting concerned with the level of his pain. We need to head north. And when we get up there, we'll be there until what needs doing gets done - he needs pain relief ⚕️💉.

{{Pineapple Express To Flood CA With Warm Air & Rain

~by Anthony Edwards - San Francisco Chronicle

A long, narrow corridor of atmospheric moisture extending from the tropics to the West Coast, known as a Pineapple Express, is forecast to bring above-normal temperatures and rain to Northern California this week. The Pineapple Express is expected to be missing a key ingredient to convert the water vapor to heavy rain in the Bay Area. (Baron/Lynx)

A Pineapple Express type of atmospheric river storm will bring mostly rain to Northern California through Wednesday, potentially triggering flooding in areas that received snow last week.

Pineapple Expresses are long, narrow plumes of water vapor in the atmosphere with origins near Hawaii or other parts of the tropical Pacific. Because of their warm origins, Pineapple Expresses often bring above-normal temperatures to California and push the rain-snow line above most Sierra Nevada ski resorts.

This week's Pineapple Express will send the rain-snow line as high as 10,000 feet in the Tahoe region, meaning most of the precipitation will fall as rain.

Monday's showers are expected to be limited to the North Coast, Trinity Alps and Klamath Range. By Tuesday, rain will push toward the Northern Sierra, Bay Area and Sacramento Valley.

Forecast rainfall totals are greatest in mountainous areas of Northern California, with 1 to 3 inches in most areas. Normally, this amount of rain would present no problems, but the unusually low-elevation snowfall last week is raising the risk of rapid melting and localized flooding. The National Weather Service forecasts a slight (level 2 of 4) risk of excessive rainfall resulting in flooding in the Northern Sierra on Tuesday.

Rainfall on top of a fresh snowpack may be enough to cause flooding Tuesday, particularly in the Northern Sierra Nevada. (Baron/Lynx)

"The combination of heavy rainfall and snowmelt may result in localized flash flooding along small streams as well as in poor drainage areas," the weather service said.

Even if rain doesn't cause flooding, it'll add weight to the fresh snowpack around the Tahoe area. Heavy snow could cause roofs or other structures to cave in. Residents should use Monday to prepare for Tuesday's potentially messy conditions.

The Sierra Avalanche Center said that high avalanche danger is anticipated in the backcountry from Monday night into Wednesday morning for the greater Lake Tahoe region, including the area where the deadly avalanche occurred last week.

While the Sierra contends with flooding concerns, the Bay Area should avoid the worst of the impacts with this Pineapple Express.

The origins of this Pineapple Express are deep in the tropics, meaning it'll be working with copious amounts of moisture. But moisture in the atmosphere doesn't always result in heavy precipitation. Upward motion is needed to convert water vapor to rain or snow. Without a strong low-pressure system nearby this week to provide that lift, mountains will do most of the work.

That means places such as Mount Tamalpais could pick up more than 2 inches of rain when San Francisco receives a half-inch or less

Forecast rainfall totals through Wednesday are greatest along the North Coast and in the Northern Sierra Nevada. San Francisco and cities to its south are forecast to pick up less than a half-inch of rain. (Baron/Lynx)

It's still unclear exactly how much rain will fall in the Bay Area on Tuesday, but it should not be a significant amount relative to recent storms. Light showers may linger Wednesday, but dry weather is forecast to prevail by Thursday.

In the Bay Area, the main impact from the Pineapple Express will be on temperatures.

The system will wipe out the chilly air mass that brought low-elevation snow to the region's peaks last week and replace it with a mild one. Highs will reach the 60s Monday and soar into the low 70s in parts of the region by Thursday after clouds and precipitation clear out.

High temperatures are forecast to reach the mid-60s to low 70s in the Bay Area on Thursday. (Baron/Lynx)

Pineapple Express to flood California with warm air, rain: https://www.msn.com/en-us/weather/extreme-weather-events/pineapple-express-to-flood-california-with-warm-air-rain/ar-AA1WTKo8?ocid=BingNewsSerp}}

We'll be heading north over the Siskiyou's 🚘🏔️, via the Redding-CA route 🗺️: praying 🙏 the beastly weather 💧🌊❄️ hasn't done - and will not do beastly damage that will muck up our northward travel.

But this morning, we were enjoying the beautiful, sunny weather we were favored with 🌞, as we climbed into Beast Betsy and drove into Coalinga; to do some light grocery shopping.

Coalinga-CA from The Almond Tree Oasis RV Park; 12 min's via W Jayne Ave, CA-33
Coalinga Plaza-CA = downtown.

When we got there, Holland said, "You know what? We really don't need to get anything here until later on - before we get ready to pull stakes; how about we go for a short drive? Let's drive a bit out of town and see what you can nab for pictures" 📸

So, that's what we did.

The sunshine felt wonderful on our skin.

The hillsides have greened up beautifully, following the recent rainfalls.

We chit-chatted, and enjoyed a serene drive - no screaming big-hair bands or heavy metal static; just the steady hum of pumping jack activity (they look like giant metal praying mantis' 😂🤣 as they go about their silent business of sucking oil up out of the ground). We noticed a huge white cross, that we'd not seen before, placed atop a hill overlooking a homestead 👀 We watched cattle munching the green grass covering a hillside. We listened to the country silence of the mountainous region.

It was a soothing, contemplative drive along that serpentine crossover roadway. We were both enjoying the peacefulness of the enjoyable Day; knowing we won't be coming back this way, again.

The fields are full of these little pumping Jacks - continually going up & down.
Large white cross W Hwy #198-CA; outside of Coalinga-CA
W Hwy #198-CA & Curry Mountain foothills; outside of Coalinga-CA
W Hwy #198-CA & Curry Mountain foothills, outside of Coalinga-CA; about 30 minutes.
Cows grazing the green grasses of W Hwy #198-CA & Curry Mountain foothills; outside of Coalinga-CA

Backtracking through Coalinga, Holland suggested we lengthen our drive and meander through Avenal - I readily agreed. I like Avenal … and I like the crossover backroad we sometimes take, too: today, we took it & explored a dirt road through a field that led to a cattle corral. And pretty flowers. Spring was springing in the Lost Hills 👍😊 And we also saw that the bridge under construction is now finished, and the wash is being lined with big boulders where we are assuming the flood waters when they come again, will be rerouted:

Avenal-CA from Coalinga-CA; 23 mins. via W Lost Hills Rd, CA-33
Back road fields were covered with bright yellow tansy, rolling hills of purple dwarf lavender, & tiny wildflowers - like these, gently being swayed by a gentle, warm breeze.
The bridge started a few months ago, is finished now; W Lost Road Hills Rd, CA-33 - this side of Coalinga-CA

Holland drove through a part of Avenal, that we hadn't explored before; several trees along the streets there, had been pruned in an unusual shape - very interesting; very pretty. I wish we could be here to see them leafed out. I am curious about how they will look with leaves 🤔 I wonder what type of trees they are. I like the shape of them. But, we will not be here; and I can only imagine. I have a very vivid imagination 😉

Then, Holland spotted a little mexican eatery … so, we nipped into a parking spot and went inside; the interior was small. The food presentation was not fancy, but it was authentic mexican food 👌 The food preparation smelled enticing 👃 - we left with tasty meals: half of it we ate alongside the highway, watching freeway traffic on the other side of the Hydril Oil Fields - the rest came home with us to finish off, later:

Interesting tree shape; Avenal-CA - I like it.
Avenal-CA Skyline Blvd. Crossover Road; 6 mins. #269 Skyline Blvd, Avenal-CA
HYDRIL OIL FIELD; Avenal-CA:
 (https://roadgypsiesvalandholland.blogspot.com/2025/11/hydril-oil-field-avenal-ca.html)
Chalios Tacos y Tortas @ #836 Skyline Blvd., Avenal-CA - Internet Picture.
Authentic food, friendly service; reasonable prices.
My Nachos; different than Coalinga's offering (which was good, too) & the soft, flour, tortilla chips were fresh made!
Avenal-CA to #269-CA & W Jayne Ave, Huron, CA = 11 mins.
CA #269 Junction, Huron-CA to Almond Tree Oasis RV Park-CA; 11 mins. via W Jayne Ave, S Glen Ave

It was still very warm when we got back to Independence, so we left the screen door open and ate the rest of our meals while enjoying the Sunkissed scent of the almond tree blossoms in the orchard behind us.

I posted a recipe 👨‍🍳 to a couple Blogs ✍️ during today's Blog Hopping - and noticed that my 'Short Girl' Posting had been featured on one of them:

Beautiful, open-door Day; the pleasant, sun-warmed, honey-sweet scent of almond tree blossoms breezing through the house.
VAL'S TURKEY-RICE CHOWDER; Coalinga-CA: (https://roadgypsiesvalandholland.blogspot.com/2026/02/vals-turkey-rice-chowder-coalinga-ca.html
SHORT GIRL~Self Care 2026; Coalinga-CA: (https://roadgypsiesvalandholland.blogspot.com/2026_01_24_archive.html)

And when the day cooled off, I went into the bunk room to work out.

I embrace getting older; most women feel anxious about aging … too many even attempt to hide their age with hair dye, spendy spa appointments, and nips and tucks if they have the💸; as they feel the years creeping up on them. All that temporary vanity rush 🩹 is futile. They will continue to age – whether they consent to it, or not 🤦🏻‍♀️: all the hair dye in the world, all the spa pampering's, and all the surgeries/lip fillers cannot hold the creeping years back. However, there is 1 thing women can do to keep their bodies lithe, limber, functionable, and "looking good for their age" … that 1 thing is physical exercise 🏋️‍♀️🧘🏽  to firm muscles 💪 under the skin (which will help smooth out the skin), boost bone density 🦴, joint flexibility, and tendon strength - a simple workout everyday will go a long way in adding pep to your step, vitality to your life 👍, and a balanced confidence to your entire wellbeing 😊

Before sliding the floor length mirrors this morning to retrieve clothing, I stood for a minute or two, noting the image reflecting back at me; and thought that at 69, that reflection wasn’t anything to be ashamed of 😘 My body has been good to me, and it is relatively healthy (aside from the asthma, and heart arrhythmia) 🤞 God designed this body specifically for ME, and I am okay with it; it’s hour-glass curviness is a bit more ample than it used to be … but it still does righteous by me, and it appeals to my husband 🥰 My skin (face, arms, legs, hands, feet, and breast area that shows) is lightly freckled, and I’m okay with that - I enjoy being outside: my skin really is holding up well for its 69 years. My hair seriously grayed up this winter & I'm okay with that, too. I decided a loooong time ago to gray naturally: and so far, the gray is coming in complementarily 😊 I am not trying to hide my age. I feel privileged to have reached this age (many do not), and I’m actually excited by the unfolding blessing of being able to be living this new era of my life.

I’m having fun & I am enjoying a life abundant 🎯 with a love I never expected in my golden years 💞

Me; December 2025

I’m not spending too much time worrying about my graying hair, my plain face, or my abundant curves. It is what it is, I do right by my body & my body does right by me … and my husband is pleased with both 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 

I want to enjoy a flexible aging, so I always make time for some workout time, to tone and shape my muscles. I enjoy workouts, I always have. Today's workout was a full-body workout, using another Darebee routine worksheet 👊 I also posted example gifs following the worksheet routines - to show proper technique and some have alternative options: personally, I have to be careful with my back 📌, so I do the laying down ones, standing upright with alternate movements.

Shape your body and tighten up your obliques with the Darebee Love Handles workout, designed to specifically work these areas. The Darebee Love Handles workout can be a safe and effective addition to a fitness routine for a 69-year-old woman; however, pay attention to how the body responds to the exercises and adjust the intensity and duration as needed.

Full Body Workout Muscles - Female
Step Jacks~10 to 20 reps x2Twists~10 twists EA side x2Side Leg Raises~12–15 reps EA side x2Side Bridges~10-12 reps EA side x2Wall Planks~hold EA Position, 15-30 secs x2 A repetition is one complete movement of an activity, like lifting a weight or doing one sit-up. Try to do 8 to 12 repetitions per activity, which counts as one set.
Various Planks exercises~EA a 10 sec. count x2

Step Jacks exercises are generally considered safe for a 69-year-old woman to do, provided she is in good physical condition and has no underlying health issues.

Step Side Jacks~10 to 20 reps x2

Body Twists exercises are generally considered safe for a 69-year-old woman to do, provided she is in good physical condition and has no underlying health issues.

Body Twists~10 twists EA side x2

Side Leg Raises exercises are safe for a 69-year-old woman to do. These exercises are designed to strengthen the glute minimus, a small muscle situated on either side of the buttocks, which is important for hip and knee stability and lateral movement. Regularly performing lateral leg raises can improve strength, stability, and reduce the risk of injuries.

Side Leg Lifts can be done standing - with support, such as a chair or a wall~12–15 reps EA side x2

Side Bends are generally safe for older adults, including a 69-year-old woman; however, it is crucial to ensure that the individual is in a stable position and that the exercise is performed with proper form to avoid any potential risks. Side bridges focus on strengthening the obliques and core through controlled hip lifts and hip lowers - overall, side bridges can be a beneficial exercise for strengthening the core and improving stability, but it should be approached with caution: if you feel sharp pain, dizziness, or shortness of breath, stop.

Side Bends (Alternative to the Side Bridges exercise)~10-12 reps EA side x2

Planks are generally considered safe for a 69-year-old woman to perform, provided she maintains proper form and listens to her body. The exercise engages the core muscles without straining the spine, which are essential for stability and balance. It helps reinforce proper postural alignment, making daily activities easier and safer. This exercise is safe for the spine and can be done by most individuals, including those with joint issues. Engaging the shoulder musculature during the push into the wall helps build upper body strength, which is beneficial for daily activities. The weight-bearing through the wrists, forearms, and upper arms benefits the bones in those areas, providing additional support for the bones. It is important for the individual to start with shorter holds and gradually increase the duration as strength improves. If you experience any undue discomfort or sharp pain, stop.

This Planks exercise can be done standing against a wall~hold EA Position, 15-30 secs x2
Wall Side Plank video
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Zc1ysm6aAM)
Standing Plank Holds~hold 15-30 secs x2. To count exercise seconds, start by saying '1' and continue counting sequentially '2', '3', and so on, until you reach recommended rep count.

It was a wonderfully beautiful Day 😇 - and I fervently pray 🙏 the beastly weather 😵‍💫 will stay away.