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Monday, October 12, 2026

A SYMPHONY OF PERMANENCE & CHANGE; Castle Rock-WA

C.o.l.d. morning, here; Toutle River RV Resort, Castle Rock-WA

BRRR 😱🍁 It was a very c.o.l.d. 33-degrees when I finally slid between sheets and blankets early this morning … and barely any warmer (44-degrees/9 AM) when I woke up 6 hours later. Laptop, wrist watch, & both phones notify me: "46-degrees & sunny" (10:15 AM, now). I see the sunshine - but warmth is not felt.

So

I'm gonna sit here drinking my morning joy juice, cozily - with my aching knees rubbed generously with Lidocaine Cream & pampered with a lapghan folded double & tucked around them; listening to freeway traffic buzz busily past my window … with 2 heaters (1 is not enough), Kleenex at fingertips, and a cheery potted plant - trying like I am - to suck in some of the sketchy warmth the gaslighting sunshine streaming through the window, is promising.

BRRR!

Amen 💎

Got a lot of shaking going on: change happening on every level, here 🙏

Thank You, Yeshua, that You are always a sigh, a touch, a prayer & a breath away … yet sticking closer than any other. Your presence means everything 💕 - when everything is in constant change 🕊️

We are SO GLAD 👏👍 we are stranded in WA State this year, with all the crazy weather going on down south!

We never went here, when we went to Parker - with our health limitations, a 1-way In & 1-way OUT would not have been a wise decision.

Famous off-grid Arizona saloon forced to close for first time in 43 years: (https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/other/famous-off-grid-arizona-saloon-forced-to-close-for-first-time-in-43-years/ar-AA2e1gRO?ocid=socialshare&fbclid=IwY2xjawU6LARleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBwZG9mBXNydGMGYXBwX2lkEDIyMjAzOTE3ODgyMDA4OTIAAR466x-CegcNfI2m5zYUzY03YRMV15-SnWBGOfI_L9AcyEBKWWPSRWS-KGpH7A_aem_SeUicicefXN3AkvJ90STkA)

But we did hear about it from everyone who crossed our path and said, "You NEED to GO!"

Uh - NO. Big 'No', to the risky road & drunken desert zombies. We stuck to the historic mining sites that were safer bets for us.

The entire landscape will be drastically changed when we get back down that way, again. Quartzsite was seriously flood damaged this year (ALL year); Kingman (ALL year), Flagstaff, Seligman, Bullhead City, Laughlin, Oatman, Lake Havasu, Needles, Yuma … I'm glad I got to see these places as Holland had remembered them … before the crazy weather broke out.

Things that have kept us here, in WA:

1) Holland's vision he received in Ocean Park, last summer - we thought it concerned the ocean tsunami's, so we've studiously been avoiding ocean view parking (and Holland loves the ocean) - but maybe he was being warned to steer clear of AZ; which is our main 'draw', even with the flying dust.

2) Medical & dental scheduling that seriously bit into our normal travel timeline: & still keeps us anchored here with results waiting.

3) Betsy maintenance -  I'm thanking Elohim now, for Holland's flaky friend Tim; those months of Tim's jerking him around … kept us here and kept us safe.

The Plan was to get Betsy taken care of - then hit the road for AZ

(((THANK YOU, YESHUA! For Your providence and Your safe-keeping))) ~ And, forgive my bitching, during all the delaying. Amen.

4) Independence scheduled ["needs" checklist walk through] tomorrow morning, to see what needs done in that regard.

LOTS going on, here; & how we move forward, if we move forward, & when we move forward depends on Independence & Holland's medical results.

But, for now, we're just giving thanks that we have escaped a wash-out 🙏👍

OCTOBER HUMOR #2; Pic's & Songs to Fit


My mother always started October off with Screaming Jay Hawkins growling out of the Hi-Fi Stereo … "I put a spell on you, because you're miiiinne"; this year, I'll switch that version out with CCR's version - I don't like CCR, but Bob did & Holland does, and I'm favoring Holland this month because there is a lot going on in his life, our life, and Life in general. So, instead of Screaming Jay Hawkins' growling, today's playlist will be favoring CCR's lazy-tongued, nasal, southern caterwallering 🙄👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

Today's Holiday Playlist 🎭🧟‍♀️🎃🍁

Tony & The Monstosities - Igor's Party: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qmIhpnwkkk0&list=RDqmIhpnwkkk0&start_radio=1)

Jumpin' Gene Simmons - Haunted House: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K12u3i1JdvI&list=RDK12u3i1JdvI&start_radio=1)

Hollywood Flames - Frankenstein's Den:  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lx3NVXohJBU&list=RDlx3NVXohJBU&start_radio=1)

Jim Burgett - Jeckyll & Hyde: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqSvNcvsPxY&list=RDkqSvNcvsPxY&start_radio=1)

Rockin' Ryan & The Real Goners - I'm A Wolfman: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AGBYleUonTw&list=RDAGBYleUonTw&start_radio=1)

My mother liked CCR. My 1st Husband liked CCR. My kids like CCR. My 2nd Husband likes CCR. I do not - I can't understand a single word they say because they sing with lazy tongues & a nasal twang. But my mother has Southren relatives … so do both husbands. My currant husband grew up in Southren states & worked oil fields there in his working years: I'm getting used to the lazy tongue drawl (though Holland talks with a tongue that pronounces clearly - thank the good Lord). But I still can't get used to CCR. I much rather prefer the original song by the original singer, Screaming Jay Hawkins. 

Anyway … here's to You, Baby ❤️, enjoy 😘

Creedence Clearwater Revival – ‘I Put A Spell on You’ song: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zwCALR8ZAm8\)

Creedence Clearwater Revival - 'Bad Moon Rising' song: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6iRNVwslM4)

Don Williams – “I Remember a Gypsy Woman’ song: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tyfeshvlZ6k&list=RDtyfeshvlZ6k&start_radio=1)

Red Hot Chili Peppers - Soul To Squeeze: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0XcN12uVHeQ&list=RD0XcN12uVHeQ&start_radio=1)

The Mad Doctor - 1933~The Mad Doctor - 1933:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LPW70q4w5pw)

Sunday, October 11, 2026

OCTOBER HUMOR #1; Pic's & Songs to Fit

While savoring my morning coffee & waiting for the chilled temperature to rise, I watched an old 1970's movie that tied ancient Egyptian ocean travel to Mexico. It's a cheezy movie, but at least it isn't dripping with slasher visuals - or follow an aimless script based solely on sensationalized blood letting & scare tactic demonic impressions.

And there is some actual historical facts linked to the Egyptian-South American theory: it was possible, as archeological expeditions have proven - some South American rafts look exactly like Egyptian boats; and the the pyramids are similar in shape, scope & height. Even the religious practices echo Egyptian influences. The naysayers are the same who deny Vikings sailed to North America before Columbus … which archeology has also proven factual.

Cast of known, recognized Star Names: Ray Milland, John Forsythe, husband & wife - Christopher George & Lynda Day George, Lee Meriwether, Stella Stevens, & Hilarie Thompson.

CRUISE INTO TERROR - TV 1978: 
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nd3Xl145plw)

I also posted to my FB Page, some October Funnies & a couple seasonal songs from the late 1950's to the mid-1970's:



Count Lorry & The Biters - Frankenstein Stomp: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwkdaD3FnjM&list=RDVwkdaD3FnjM&start_radio=1)

Lee Kristofferson - NIght of The Werewolf: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDDKo-aaido&list=RDfDDKo-aaido&start_radio=1)

Sam The Sham - Ju Ju Hand: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bp-PKTNiY68&list=RDBp-PKTNiY68&start_radio=1)

The Verdicts - The Mummy's Ball: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nWvFjjKeUgM&list=RDnWvFjjKeUgM&start_radio=1)

The Tomko's - The Spook: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24UGtRDeMTg&list=RD24UGtRDeMTg&start_radio=1)

Rod Willis - The Cat: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSfLjpp8hbs&list=RDxSfLjpp8hbs&start_radio=1)

Joe August - The Blob: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFVECThciqk&list=RDlFVECThciqk&start_radio=1)

The Starlighters - Creepin': (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNaN-kfeY84&list=RDtNaN-kfeY84&start_radio=1)

An animated cartoon  distributed by Columbia Pictures, in 1931.
Silly Symphony - Egyptian Melodies: 
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L1j7uhwDGsc&t=45s)

Saturday, October 10, 2026

LETS … COVERS A LOT OF GROUND; Castle Rock-WA

I was pretty sick with a queasy stomach, a fever that had me soaked with sweat, chills that had me shaking & quaking, & nausea, in the wee hours of this morning … I was in bad shape, but I didn't think it was serious enough to warrant an ER visit, so Holland checked on me periodically before I got up - and gave me a Free Pass 🎟️💞 for the Day, even making Supper for us; which, thankfully, I managed to keep in my stomach. So, all I've actually done today since waking up, is scroll FB reels - and laugh out loud, nod my head in agreement, and say, "that's truth, alright".

Here are some of the reels that grabbed my attention, got me thinking-laughing-commenting:

😂🤣 Good thing I'm gutsy - as well as spicy 😉
Giving me lots and lots of these shiny things 😁 … will guarantee cashing in on anything he wants from me 😘

I did warn Holland - when he started talking marriage: "I don't think you know what you're asking for. I will make you angry - often. I won't mean to, but it will happen." He said, "I'll risk it." Now, my warning plays in his head 24/7/365; and I try not to remind him that "I said so". Marriage 💕  It's a trip …

It just happens 😉 I wake up bouncy & innocent … and by the end of the Day I'm being told I embody all the power in the galaxy to piss off the entire world 🤔 Superwoman has nothing over me 😂🤣

There are very few people from my Past in my Life, Now.

Some have taken different paths.

Some have heeded The Call.

Some were lured away by worldly distractions.

Some stayed.

Some made me a part of their Family nucleolus.

Some are new-comers: late comers to the Party of My Life.

They didn't know me in my Past - they only know me in this New Chapter of my New Life.

None of these people really know me.

Both groups of people that make up my Tribe, only know the bits and pieces of me that I share; I share truthfully … but I don't share all.

So, when people run with what they think they know about me, try to manage me, make assumptions about me, and try to force me into a labeled box … I will more often, than not, buck against it all & can honestly say, "You don't know me."

Truth.

Bob married me 4 months after our 1st Date. His words to me after positioning me in front of Zane's window, on Commerce & pointing at wedding rings were, "I believe we can make it, Val. I want you to be the mother of my children." I was 17 - he was 24 💍 Bob always felt like Home, to me. We made it, through thick & thin, for 44 years 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

Holland married me 2 months after our 1st Date. His words to me while we were sitting in his truck, drinking coffees at Willow Grove, were: "We're getting married - I waited 35 years for you & thought I had missed you somewhere along the line. The years kept passing. Then, you walked through the door - I knew who you were as soon as I saw you. We're getting married & you'll get used to the thought of me." That was in November; we were married the first week of January 💎 Holland is a tough guy 🤠 … but, with all his sharp edges, he feels like Home, to me. In all those years between Bob's leaving - and Holland's arrival, no other guy interested me - not even a tiny spark; and I was flirted with at the gas station, grocery aisles, Park walks: only Holland was able to get me alongside him. I was 66 - he was 60. And we're going to make it, because there is no one else we'd rather stand beside, fight with, share laughs with, & make memories with 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 We've weathered 1,400 Days out of our hoped for 7,300; the next 5,900 should be a cinch 😉

I was feeling well enough to make supper, when suppertime came around - but Holland insisted that I "rest the whole Day, Baby; I don't want anything to happen to you." I consented because (1) he likes to cook (2) it eases his mind to "take care of" me.

He can make an ordinary thing, extraordinary; this man can cook 👩‍🍳‍  - and I am grateful 👍

I am blessed - and I know it 💖

Thursday, October 8, 2026

MOD HEADPHONES CROCHET SUNFLOWER STRIP BAND Pattern; Castle Rock-WA


After I had designed and crafted 🧶✂️🧵 my Curvette Fall Vibes Headband …

Fall-Themed V-shaped Curvette Headband.MOD CROCHET CURVETTE FALL VIBES HEADBAND; Castle Rock-WA: (https://roadgypsiesvalandholland.blogspot.com/2026/10/mod-crochet-curvette-fall-vibes.html)

… I decided to add of seasonal color to my headphones too -  so, that's what I did 😊

When Holland woke up and caught sight of them, while I drank my morning joy juice - he laughed and said, "You are really having fun with sunflowers, aren't you? I like it - it's definitely YOU" 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

I am having fun.

Life is too short to do anything else.

Fall is the season for colorful fun.

MOD Headphones Crochet Sunflower Strip Band

Materials: Worsted weight yarn in colors of choice (original is yellow, brown, & green - but sunflowers come in an array of colors, now); Size #E/4 crochet hook; scissors; tapestry needle; 2 medium-size resin buttons

Terms Used:

ch = chain

dc = decrease

EA = each

hdc = half double crochet

inc = increase

jn = join

sc = single crochet

sl st = slip stitch

st = stitch

tog= together

rpt = repeat

x = times


MOD Crochet Strip Band: Ch 7 - T

Rows 1 thru 12: Sc EA st; T

Row 13 - Buttonhole R: Sc x3, ch 5 & jn w-sl st in next st, sc x2: EO & weave in loose end.

On opposite end, count 3 rows down & 3 sts from side to sew resin button in place.

Make another band in same manner.

MOD Sunflower: Center; Make a magic circle, ch 2 & work 12 dc in circle - draw to a close with last dc.

Petals: Attach Gold yarn & ch 5 & work as follows - *sl st, sc x 2, hdc, sl st in front loop of next st, then sl st in back loop of same st & ch 5 st*; rpt * - * around circle (13 petals); remove hook & working from backside of work, pull yarn through.

ch 5
Sl st, sc x 2, hdc
Sl st in front loop of next st
Sl st in back loop of same st
Rpt petal pattern sequence.
Finished Sunflower~Front Side

Strengthening Petals: *Ch 5 & sl st to top of petal backside, then sl st EA ch to backside of petal & in backside loop of sunflower center circle*; rpt * - * around EA petal. EO & weave in loose ends.

Ch 5
Sl st to top of petal backside
Then sl st down EA ch st & thru petal sts; tog
Sl st in backside loop of sunflower center circle.

Mark sunflower placement & place 1 Sunflower in the center of crochet strip band & tack securely in place:

Place Sunflower in center of crochet strip band, & tack securely in place.

Repeat with second crochet strip band.

Button your sunflower bands to your headphones … 😊🎧

… and enjoy your favorite movies 🎬, podcasts, 🎙️, music 🎶, or reels 💻, in Fall style 🍁, & and enjoy your Autumn vibe 🌻

Enjoy your Autumn vibe.