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Thursday, March 27, 2025

MOD TALL GRASS & BEACH DAISIES KITCHEN TOWEL SET~Quartzsite-AZ

MOD Tall Grass & Beach Daisies Kitchen Towel Set

While in Quartzsite-AZ two months ago, Holland & I were enjoying a desert drive - and discussing Ocean Park-WA, and Brookings-OR: the 2 places we'd be parking Independence for lengthy stays in 2025. The desert climate … though we both love AZ … does not work for us with the continual dust devils that are whipped up daily.

This Tampa-FL country rock band was playing … and while it played as we drove, the title seemed to {fit} the beachy vibe we're aiming for; and I got to thinking that it would also be a theme I could work a new kitchen towel, around 🤔

The Outlaws - 'Green Grass & High Tides' song: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DhiyKZsAW44)

Desert themed kitchen towels will not work for coastal beach locations: when we leave AZ the first week of April, we will not be coming back. New kitchen towels are needed - that's my story, and I'm sticking to it 😁

So, when we got back to Independence, I dug out an old pattern stitch book and found the Daisy St. I wanted to work into pattern mentally forming, in my thoughts 😉

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Materials: Cotton yarn in 4 colors of choice: I used Sunshine (1 skein), Green (maybe an ounce), White scrap yarn, & Green Stripes (1 skein); # 10-1/2 knitting needles; #J/10 crochet hook; MOD Daisy St. Graph; 1 Tapestry Needle; 1 medium Daisy resin button

Terms used:

g st = knit every row
st. st. = stockinette stitch (1 K row = RS - 1 P row = WS)
k = knit
p = purl
sp = space
EO = end off yarn
CO = cast on stitches
EA = each
inc = increase 1 st (make 2 sts in same st)
dec = decrease 1 st (work 2 sts together)
sc = single crochet
dc = double crochet
sl st = slip stitch
rpt = repeat
tog = together

With Sunshine, CO 73 sts & work 4 rows in g. st.

Rows 5 thru 14: work in st. st. - drop Sunshine and attach Green.

Row 15: K 1 st, *P 1, K 1*; rpt across row.

K 1, P1 across row …

Row 16: P

Begin to work the Daisy Stitch Pattern …

Daisy Stitch Pattern:

Rows 17 & 18: Work in st. st.

Row 19: K 4 - then attach White and *place point of right hand needle into the 3rd st from beginning of green row; and draw up a loop, K 1 Green, in same place as first loop - draw up another White loop, K 1 Green, repeat loop process (3 loops made) & K 5 sts*: rpt pattern across row - end with K 4.

MOD Daisy St. Graph
Daisy Stitch

Row 20: P 4 *P next st & loop st tog, P 1, P next st & loop st tog, P 1, P next st & loop st tog, & K 5 sts*: rpt pattern across row - end with P 4; EO White.

Rows 21 & 22: Work in st. st.; drop Green and attach Sunshine.

Row 23: K 1 st, *P 1, K 1*; rpt across row.

Row 24: P

Rows 25 & 26: Work in st. st.; drop Sunshine and attach Green Stripes.

Row 27: K 1 st, *P 1, K 1*; rpt across row.

Row 28: P

Rows 29 thru 61: Continue working in st. st.

Row 62: Decrease as follows: P 2 – P 3 tog across row to last 2 sts: end P 2 sts.

Change from knitting needles to crochet hook and work in sc as follows: dec 1 st EA end until 8 sts remain; EO Green Stripes and attach Green.

Crochet Topper …

Working on the 8 remaining sts, alternately work 1 row sc & 1 row dc, for 13 rows.

Sl st x3 sc; ch 6 and sl st in same sp; sl st to end. Turn.

Dc x12 in chain loop; EO.

Add a decorative loop edging of your choice (or leave plain).

MOD decorative loop edging.

Sew button in place and weave in loose ends.

MOD GARTER ST SQUARE DISHRAG:

Matching Dishcloth; MOD

Cast on 2 stitches.

Row 1: Knit 1-Inc 1 st in next st.

Row 2: Knit 1-Inc-knit across the row.

Row 3: Knit 2-Inc-knit across row.

Row 4: Repeat Row 3 until you have 50 stitches on the needle.

Row 5: Knit 1, Knit 2 together, knit to the end of the row. Repeat Row 5 until you have 3 stitches left on the needle; K 3 sts tog - EO off and weave in loose ends.

Wednesday, March 26, 2025

WEDNESDAY THOUGHTS~Let Them Be Wrong; Kingman-AZ

March 22nd: Today we went over to Aunt Gaye's house, to visit a while with her: we loved her very much - and want to spend as much time with her as we can, while we are here in Kingman-AZ

She's not doing well, and wants us to stay here … but Holland says we need to be up North. He says we need to be there, instead of here, "because there's no sand dust up there": there is, but not so bad. And I agree with that stance. However, it's more than that. Lana, Mark, Scott, Tim, Cal, Pete, Sonny, his Dr., and Oak Point - are [up north]; with no changes being made, in regards to any of it.

So.

In a few days we will be pulling stakes here - and moving steadily there. It's debatable exactly "where", at the moment. The Plan was to go directly to Ocean Park-WA, and book space rent through Summer ... then, pack up there, and backtrack to Brookings-OR. But with Cal's recent blowing up his phone's PM app ... I'm thinking probably Woodland. Holland was checking RV Parks in that vacinity last night: even though he knows there are no Park openings to be found there. The next alternative is Castle Rock's RV Park, and that's close to the Kelso chaos.

I am understandably concerned about this move: the concerns are valid.

And after 2 years of continual fighting that centers around his need to haul ass back to WA - I'm just tired of the same arguments. I can let him be wrong.

Before we left the Park today, Holland caught sight of a pickup & RV he recognized: he has been following these RVr's YouTube videos, and now they were here, where he could talk to them personally. So, he did, while I shut off house lights before walking out Independence's door.

I received a text from Jake saying he missed us … so, I snapped off a selfie pic of US - and jetted it off to him via the airwaves: then, we were out of the Park and on our way to Aunt Gaye's:

Holland spotted the truck & RV of Youtuber's he follows; the fella's "famous Uncle" is Tom Hanks. Given the way Hanks has shamefully been behaving, I could care less about him - or their connection to him.
Fat & sassy US; Pic sent to Jake, who misses us & is not on FB; where most people get a glimpse of us.

We had an enjoyable visit with Aunt Gaye, despite her enthusiasm to share her Baha'i religious views with us. Holland was in agreement. I was not - but I stayed silent.

Holland's Aunt Gaye we loved her very much - and want to spend as much time with her as we can, while we are here.

I can love people who do not share my Faith; and sometimes they can love me back (my children do not, and cannot allow themselves to do so).

I can share space, and converse graciously with loved ones … while kindly side-stepping religious landmines.

I can "be like Jesus!" while being like Jesus: He loves people without entertaining their self-destructive behaviors. And, I am understanding that sometimes - like Yeshua - silence is golden.

I am done with rebellious religions, and fickle people who are set in rebellious ways. Holland was surprised I didn't counter argue religious points … but I'm done with that, concerning my husband and his associates. I have learned that to counter argue religious points with Christian truths in Holland's presence … is to invite a week's worth of anger aimed in my direction. I told him in December that I was done with that - and I mean it. Every single branch of Holland's family tree … (and friend circle) … is heavy with some flaky religiosity, or outright atheism. And every single religious point to tear down Christianity always ends with, "There's truth running through every religion - we are all united with religion" & "Who are they (meaning Christians) to tell ME that I'm going to Hell!" I've heard that from my own children for the past 40 years - and I now, am hearing the same thing from Holland when religiosity rears it's ugly head between us. So, because they are not dealing with realities and do not want to truly know what is what: I am staying silent and letting them stay wrong. I no longer cast my pearls before swine. Basically every single one of these people have left the Church and refuse Christianity because they are actively involved in rebellious sin and refuse to grow up and mature; rebellion has become their support animal. It's eating them alive, but they don't care - they'd rather die for their right to fight … than to turn before they burn.

1 John 2:19 strongly implies that those who departed from the community of believers were never truly part of it, and their departure reveals their true nature

I am no longer casting my pearls before swine: “Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces" (Matthew 7:6-7). In Matthew 7:6, the "dogs" represent individuals who are hostile, unappreciative, and potentially dangerous when presented with sacred or precious truths, and the verse advises against wasting valuable spiritual teachings on such people; "swine" metaphorically represents people who are unappreciative of spiritual truths and who will reject or trample on them, rather than valuing them = can also represent those who are hardened and incapable of receiving God's truth, or those who will turn and tear at those who try to share it with them. Yeshua is not saying that people should stop sharing the gospel or sharing spiritual truths, but rather that they should be discerning and not waste their time trying to share valuable things with those who will not appreciate them.

Christianity says in 1 Timothy 2:5, that "There is only ONE God, and ONE Mediator between man/woman and God (Elohim), and that ONE is Christ Jesus (Yeshua Ha'Mashiach)." There is NO "other" by which man/woman can attain everlasting Life. Holland's immediate circle of people seriously depend on every "other" out there: there is no room for Elohim, or for Yeshua. This causes friction between us when the subject is broachedso, now I just hang back and let them be all be wrong. Most of them are caught up in alcohol or drug addictions, some are seriously ill and dying, and some lives are just nearing their end; and regardless of their religious leanings, they are all afraid of dying. They are afraid because they know deep in their hearts that they are living a lie. Holland himself has told me that he "wants to be left behind to fight" (for whatever reason the wacky religion he was raised in, twisted his reasoning).

And so he will be, if he continues on the path he is treading. I would like him to walk with me, in the next life … but my bull-headed Taurus, is stubbornly (and very sadly misinformed religion-wise) resisting.

As for myself, I intend to be air-lifted out of here soon - considering the way things on Earth are unfolding.

And I am d.o.n.e. arguing with people - including my husband - over self-deluding religious points; whose main goal is to attack Christianity: "Two people will be in one bed; one will be taken and the other left" (Luke 17:34-36). John 3:16-18 specifically states that anyone not saved through faith in Christ, will be thrown into the blazing furnace of Hell, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. There will be no muslim virgins waiting. There will be no catholic prayers for the dead. There will be no Baháʼí (Shiʻa Islam) Báb, Krishna, or Buddha prophecy-prayer-or fast to save them. There will no NAR (new apostolic reformation) concert atmosphere to hype them up. The gig will be up, and they will be lost in eternal hopelessness … and they will have chosen it out of self-serving rebellion because the world is their home; and they - themselves, are their god.

I am not saying, or posting anything I have not personally said to Holland when he starts arguing religion with me. Like his Aunt, he includes all religions & claims to be "saved". I stand on the Scriptures, believe the Gospel Message, and do not agree with his mindset. It's a complication that oftimes has me wondering why Elohim put me in this marriage to Mr. Complication.

All that said, it really was an enjoyable visit with Aunt Gaye. And she sent me home with some costume jewelry she doesn't use anymore - I was appreciative of the colorful pieces; and will be leaving Kingman-AZ with meaningful mementoes.

Wearing the gifted costume jewelry and listening to Holland's determined arguments about the need to live in the PNW; I am thinking that he is conveniently forgetting how sick & outright miserable, we get up there.

Given the "up north" madhouse activities, seasonal allergies, and chilling wetness that greatly limits my mobility 6 months out of every year; due to aching joints - I'd choose the AZ dust ups & PNW distancing. But, I have no choice. It has all been decided. My only saving grace is knowing that Elohim is looking out for my best interests, and HE will provide what I need, when I need it, wherever Holland parks Independence.

As you rightly think, reading this post - I am not happy about going back up north.

Holland's breathing will not get better: he is suffering with COPD, and the nicotine chews he is eating like tic tacks, is only exasperating the condition. He refuses to acknowledge that he did not hack and spit until he started with the nicotine chews. He always coughed, but it was not as severe.

I can let him be wrong.

I have always coughed - Bob understood, but the kids were always {disgusted!} and annoyed with the constant coughing - they failed to understand that I was not contagious, I was trying to stay alive by coughing the mucus out of my struggling, inflamed, lungs; especially in the winter months when bronchitis added it's burdensome infliction to my already asthma weary lungs. The heavy humidity that hangs over WA State like a shrouding soaking wet blanket … and the Spring allergens, are serious concerns for me. Dry climates are much better for my struggling body. Holland, is overlooking the seriousness of this move.

And I am trying not to be overly angry.

I cannot breathe, or move easily up north …

He cannot breathe, or move easily down south.

And there doesn't seem to be a neutral State between here and there that he will consider. He is set his sights on Brookings-OR; but I'm not convinced it will be much better that the WA coastline. I mean: it still "occasionally" snows there! Meaning the temperatures will be relatively close to WA's coastal winter weather. I could barely move when we were in Ocean Park-WA last Fall, without joint pain.

I'm working on a new crochet lapghan - I'm going to need it, up there.

New lapghan unfolding; Bleu tore the other one up, with his toenails.

And I know that Elohim goes before me, and will "make straight the way before me" - wherever Holland decides to park Independence.

I am not happy about this move northward. But I'm going to look for the silver lining, trust Elohim, and pray to God that the demonrat nonsense stops: I really, really want some peace in my future.

Maybe a miracle will happen, and this will be my last moving rant …

Working on a crochet item & listening to a newsfeed …
Hate-spurred Trump Derangement Syndrome (TDS),  continues …

Tuesday, March 25, 2025

REVISITING OATMAN DONKEYS; Oatman-AZ Daytrip


March 20th: This morning Holland woke up saying, "My Baby needs to get out of the house - let's go for a drive." He had a surprise up his sleeve ❤️

Today's Loop Route …
The Santa Fe Rail Line; Kingman-AZ
Destinations = We did the 1st & last notation, today; we will be driving to Bullhead City - with Aunt Gaye, on the 31st.

We drove to Oatman-AZ a different route, this afternoon: and it allowed us to see things we'd missed before, because they were behind us; and we were focused on the winding road ahead of us.

Oatman-AZ from Kingman-AZ; 48 min (28.8 mi) via Oatman Rd

Driving along, I saw some pretty big chunks of pumice littering the desert landscape on both sides of the highway; Holland was kind enough to turn around and take me back to the largest piece, so I could get a good look at it 😘

Pretty good hunk of pumice rock, alongside the roadway …
Arizona's Ancient Super Volcano
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x4BY0FeEovQ)

Although I have seen - and posted - many examples of pumice seen during our desert forays, this piece was the largest I have ever seen … and it got my mind going 🧐: Where did it come from? How large was the explosion that catapulted it to this location? Was it washed to this spot by a flash flood?

So, when I got back to Independence, I jumped online, to find out 😉

While Kingman-AZ, sits along the eastern edge of the Mojave Desert & is in a cold desert climate due to its plateau location; there is evidence of volcanic activity in Kingman's geologic past … and volcanic features noted in several areas of the Mohave County. 

The San Francisco Volcanic Field - north of Flagstaff-AZ, is considered active; and future eruptions are anticipated.

The San Francisco Mountain composite volcano: the largest volcano in the field, and at 12,666 feet above sea level, the highest point in Arizona, is a composite volcano, also known as a stratovolcano … which is a cone-shaped volcano built up by layers of hardened lava, volcanic ash, and other volcanic debris, often characterized by steep sides and explosive eruptions. Similar in shape, and action, as the Mt. St. Helens volcano, in WA State.

The prominent mountain peak behind Cool Springs Station in Arizona, is 'Thimble Butte' - a towering granite icon rising 1,400 feet above the valley floor spreading out along the Kingman-AZ to Oatman-AZ old highway Route 66. It is part of the Black Mountain Range that borders the Colorado River from Lake Mead to Topock-CA

Interesting mountain top~'Thimble Butte', part of the Black Mountains-AZ
The Black Mountains Of Northwest Arizona:  (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Mountains_(Arizona))

The Black Mountain Range is 75 miles of jagged volcanic peaks and rhyolite formations along the west border of Mohave County. They’re so rugged that only a handful of roads cross through them … even Interstate 40 loops 60 miles south to avoid the range.

Coming into the 'Cool Springs Station'; #8275 Oatman Road, Historic Rte 66, Golden Valley, AZ
The History of Cool Springs~Route 66-AZ:  (https://www.route66coolspringsaz.com/history.htm)

While Holland went inside the Station building, I walked over to the stenciled Historic Route 66 icon, to get a picture of it - I would have shown the tips of my toes, included … but I was already pushing my luck with a couple motorcyclists that were chomping at the bit to boogie down the highway.

I held up a couple motorcycles, by standing in the middle of the highway to get this Historic US 66 photo shot 😉
Vintage 'Cool Springs' Postcard; circa 1926

Cool Springs-AZ was once a hustling and bustling pit stop for travelers along Route 66 who were about to ascend (or descend; depending on the direction traveled) the dangerous climb up/down Black Mountain & Sitgreaves Pass.

I was a little envious of the lucky people to be living and working in such a beautifully scenic area. When I let fly, "These people are lucky dogs to be situated in - and surrounded by all this beauty"Holland barked a laugh, and threw in, "I'll bet 'those lucky dogs' don't feel so lucky when the summer temperatures reach 3 digit readings."

This section of Route 66 is one of the few remaining that is still a very narrow two-lane highway and believe me, you want to take it slow and steady: in one place, looking out my passenger-side window, I could see where the sandy-grit foundation under the blacktop, was seriously being eroded away. There are no roadside [shoulders], and the drop-away's from roadsides are steep & deep. We could see several wrecked vehicles sitting at haphazard angles where they had plunged off the roadway and came to a crashing rest in the desert grit.

Today vehicles over 40 feet long are not allowed on this section - Betsy's probably 20 feet long from bumper to bumper (and it's a chancy drive 🤔, alone) … Independence is 45 feet long; combined, they would be a suicidal hazard 😳 along this stretch of Route 66.

A cave!
There's an artesian well, at the top of those stone steps … Betsy was too long to fit into that teeny turnout; and it was entirely too close to the oncoming blind curve.
Shaffer Springs~aka, Shaffer's Fish Bowl:  (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shaffer_Springs)
Internet pic of the spring water basin; Shaffer Springs~Shaffer's Fish Bowl
White burros really stand out against the brown gritty desert landscape.

We also caught sight of a big operation mine: internet searches tell me [While the Oatman Mining District, including Sitgreaves Pass, has a rich history of gold mining, no major, modern-day mining operations are currently operating within Sitgreaves Pass itself]we beg to differ: there was a clear sign of mining taking place, in Sitgreaves Pass, which was the road we drove; and is located on Route 66, which connects Oatman with Kingman (and visa versa).

Given the hardware & machinery - this is clearly an operational & functioning mining outfit; Sitgreaves Pass-AZ
Gold Road Mine-AZ
(https://www.legendsofamerica.com/az-goldroad/)
Operational & Functioning

Climbing upwards, I spotted a stone building ruins - barely off the side of the curving bend of roadway; I later learned that this would have been Gold Road-AZ - which was a small mining area … which was part of the larger Oatman Mining District.

Nearly hidden ruins of a cabin that was part of the mining activity and the early days of Route 66.
Oatman-AZ & Goldroad-AZ:  (https://azoffroad.net/oatmangoldroad & https://www.cornerstone-environmental.com/publications/item/goldroad-and-the-oatman-mining-district)
1906~Gold Road Mine; Oatman Mining District, Black Mtns-AZ
2-toned peak; coming into Oatman-AZ
2-toned peak showing in this vintage pic of the Tom Reed Mine; Oatman-AZ
The Tom Reed Gold Mine-AZ
(http://lostmines.net/tom-reed-gold-mine.html)
The longest remaining segment of Route 66 of it's U.S.A. route, & ends at end of Oatman Hwy-AZ

Between 1870 and 1980, the Oatman District produced more than one million ounces of silver and nearly two million ounces of gold.

When we came into Oatman, I saw a familiar figure: the little donkey plodding up main street looked like the one that has a sticker, "Do not feed me" taped to it's forehead, last time we were here. Holland said they don't grow up that fast … but, it sure looked like it was the same cute, little, furry beast 😉

Baby donkey; now & then~Oatman-AZ
My 1st Oatman-AZ Post:  (https://roadgypsiesvalandholland.blogspot.com/2024/12/redemption-pt-1oatman-az.html)

Exiting the busy (meandering four-footed, & two-footed, hoofers) Main Street of Oatman … we pulled over and spent some time enjoying the furry beggars.

This time, we had donkey snacks with us 😁

Holland feeding animal cookies to roadside beggars. LOL
Moochers on my side of Betsy - and a bonus baby, too; Oatman Rd-AZ
It's just adorable!
The last group of wild donkeys on the Historic Route 66 highway, quickly coming to an end.
Leaving, I chucked a few cookies towards the strolling donkeys, out the passenger side window … but a gust of wind blew my handful of cookies onto Betsy's hood - Holland was silent, but his eyes spoke volumes. Betsy is his true 'Baby'; and he is very picky with the 4x

Pulling back onto the blacktop, the errant animal cookies flew off Betsy's hood and were no doubt nimbly picked up out of the dust, and savored by one of the pampered wild donkeys 👍

In no time at all, we had reached the end of the Historic Route 66 - and Holland was back to zipping up the Interstate. He does these backroad Daytrips for me, but the freeway is his main preference for travel.

We have now traveled the entire length of AZ's Historic Route 66 - Seligman-AZ yesterday; & Oatman-AZ, today.
The Colorado River; Historic Rte 66, Topock, AZ
Kingman-AZ fro Topock Railroad Water Tower-AZ; 48 min (49.6 mi) via I-40 E

We had an enjoyable day out-of-house.

Heuy Lewis & the News - 'Doing It All For My Baby' Lyrics: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aN6JClwqpEM)

It was a good surprise; and a fun, sunny day excursion 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨