It's a complicated thing, this marriage of ours 🤔🩹🦋🕊️ - living with TBI, PTSD, and Holland's inability to cut dysfunctional & unhealthy connections 👺😈👹✂️
These dysfunctional & unhealthy intrusions are what is coming between US.
And I'm not an angel, either: I have my own issues I'm working through. When the heat is on, I match his angry outbursts 🤬 - in that, we are both at fault 😟🤠😤🤦🏻♀️
Love is not always easy 👩❤️💋👨😔
Relationships are not always smooth 💞💔
But where hope lives 🙏, love can thrive 💕; when giving up is not an option ✝️, we keep remembering the good times ✅ & searching for the best in each other 🤝 It's still there. And that's why we hang on.
Our marriage is young - just 29 months; we are still learning about each other & adjustments are still being made.
It's a complicated thing, this marriage of ours; as we navigate the Butterfly Process of "becoming".
BILLY JOEL - 'She's Got A Way' Lyrics:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HAxWxTpGdyQ)
Holland & Me; Longview-WA~February 4, 2023
Billy Joel - 'Uptown Girl' Lyrics:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nEIcTstEmnQ)
Holland & Me; Kingman-AZ~March 22, 2025
Holland & Me; Longview-WA~March 1, 2023
Billy Joel - 'For The Longest Time' Lyrics:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KR6IR3JPszU)
Billy Joel - 'And So It Goes' Lyrics:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UJJFuEBLJ4w)
Billy Joel - 'The Stranger' Lyrics:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nauK8O43jx8)
We love each other, & are good for each other 98% of the time; Layton-CA~February 2, 2024
Billy Joel - 'Got to Begin Again' Lyrics:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5VgzSGo2ks)
Billy Joel - 'Turn the Lights Back On' Lyrics:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zMK9SwG_Va4)
Billy Joel - 'A Matter Of Trust' Lyrics:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLQCkKLWW4g)
Billy Joel - 'Honesty' Lyrics:
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjyqcQRU0vY)
