Our lives have changed so much since January 7th, 2023 ... New Marriage/New Life: the blending of two into one, gets dicey at times - daily life on the road adds more dicey complications. This is our story of our life in our 5th wheel RV Home. I post about anything & everything, and if what I post can help someone else, I'm glad for the experience. But from sunrise to sunset, we live our Life for US.
NEW ATTITUDE
Friday, June 13, 2025
SELF CARE SHABBAT; Ocean Park-WA
FL SHERIFF STANDS UP TO TERRORISTS PRETENDING TO BE PEACEFUL PROTESTORS
U.S.A sheriff in Florida told his community on Thursday, that if any protesters break the law, or get violent toward law enforcement officers, they will be killed.
"We will kill you graveyard dead," said Brevard County Sheriff Wayne Ivey during an "anti-riot" press conference alongside Florida Attorney General James Uthmeier.
"No Kings" protests have been planned across the country for June 14, coinciding with a military parade scheduled in Washington to celebrate the 250th anniversary of the U.S. Army. It's also President Donald Trump's birthday.
"Peaceful protests are part of our democracy," said Ivey. "The key word in that is 'peaceful.'"
Brevard County is located on the eastern coast of central Florida and is the tenth most populated county in the state, according to census data.
"If you resist lawful orders, you're going to jail. Let me be very clear about that. If you block an intersection or a roadway in Brevard County, you are going to jail. If you flee arrest, you're going to go to jail tired because we're gonna run you down and put you in jail. If you try to mob rule a car in Brevard County, gathering around it, refusing to let the driver leave, in our county, you're most likely going to get run over and dragged across the street," said Ivey. "If you spit on us, you're going to the hospital and then jail. If you hit one of us, you're going to the hospital and jail and most likely get bitten by one of our big, beautiful dogs that we have here. If you throw a brick, a fire bomb or point a gun at one of our deputies, we will be notifying your family where to collect your remains at because we will kill you graveyard dead. We're not gonna play."
Ivey emphasized that Florida will not allow the "attacks" on law enforcement seen in California during multiple days of protests against raids by Immigration and Customs Enforcement. Those protests spread to other cities, like Chicago, Dallas and Louisville, Kentucky.
"We are not California. We do not allow rioting in the state of Florida," said Uthmeier.
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YES!
Finally a State with balls to stand up to the obamanite minions 👏👏👏
These [peaceful protesters] seen in CA, OR, & WA States are IMPORTED TERRORISTS brought to our Nation by people who hate America - the concept of her (she is not "an experiment" - she is a bulwark against 3rd world tyranny), her flag, her LEGAL people, her foundation principles … her ally with Israel. These people in American city streets tearing down monuments, spray-painting filth on buildings, standing in front of cars - hijacking motorists & smashing windshields with rocks (scooters dropped from overpasses) and other trash, laying down in front of moving traffic, spraying officer's faces with pepper spray, shooting fireworks at officers, looting stores, attacking pedestrians … and caught up in obamanite politician's inflammatory Trump Derangement Syndrome (such as we hear from that snaky newscum every minute of every day, for the past 10 years).
America BOUGHT CA & TX from mehico - it was not "stolen!"
muslim terror tactics DO NOT BELONG in America.
People who pick up the sword to go to war, should consider the very real fact that wars always end in death at some point.
LAW ABIDING CITIZENS are sick and tired of the obamanite madness.
Death rides the backs of every terrorist who decides to plot a coup against America and her People.
I have absolutely no sympathy for illegal aliens bent on destruction - of America, her citizens … or themselves.
I am glad to see mature men, and rational common sense finally stepping to the forefront.
Sanctuary cities are a scourge to America & law-abiding Americans; they promote rebellion, tyranny, death, and destruction: THAT IS the obama way.
"We are not California. We do not allow rioting in the state of Florida," said Uthmeier.
APPEALS COURT GRANTS PRESIDENT TRUMP THE RIGHT TO KEEP CA NATIONAL GUARD DEPLOYED TO LA
The decision by the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 9th Circuit blocks a federal judge’s earlier order to return control of the troops to California.
SAN FRANCISCO — An appeals court late Thursday allowed President Donald Trump, for now, to keep the California National Guard deployed in response to protests in Los Angeles, blocking a federal judge’s move just hours earlier that ordered the Trump administration to return control of the troops to California Gov. Gavin Newsom.
U.S. District Judge Charles R. Breyer had said the president acted illegally in dispatching the troops. He wrote that Trump acted improperly, “both exceeding the scope of his statutory authority and violating the Tenth Amendment to the United States Constitution,” and ordered him to relinquish control to the governor.
Though Breyer stayed his order until noon Friday, the government immediately filed a notice of appeal to the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 9th Circuit. The court quickly granted the government’s motion for a stay, and a hearing is scheduled for Tuesday.
When asked for comment on the appeals court ruling, the governor’s office pointed to Newsom’s earlier remarks in which he said he was “confident in the rule of law.”
The legal battle unfolding is in response to a lawsuit California filed this week against Trump, Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth and the Defense Department seeking to restrict what the National Guard and the Marines can do in Los Angeles, and to allow them only to protect federal facilities and personnel. The state asked the judge to temporarily curb the troops’ actions and has questioned Trump’s right to deploy the National Guard and Marines in California without Newsom’s input or consent.
The administration called out 4,100 National Guard members and Marines in response to the protests, and 2,100 of the National Guard members are working in the L.A. area. All are part of Task Force 51, whose mission is to protect federal functions and property, according to U.S. Northern Command.
Newsom, a Democrat who has sparred frequently with the president, argued that he was not trying to prevent the military from carrying out that mission, but rather seeking “narrow relief tailored to avoid irreparable harm to our communities and the rule of law that is likely to result if Defendants are allowed to proceed with their plans to use Marines and federalized National Guard to enforce immigration laws and other civil laws on the streets of our cities.”
The Trump administration called Newsom’s request for the temporary restraining order “legally meritless” and said it “would jeopardize the safety of Department of Homeland Security personnel and interfere with the Federal Government’s ability to carry out operations.”
In its appeal, the Trump administration called the order “an extraordinary intrusion” on the president’s authority, including his power to “mobilize state National Guards into federal service to quell riotous mobs committing crimes against federal personnel.”
“The order also puts federal officers in harms’ way every minute that it is in place,” Trump’s team added.
Local officials have challenged framing by the right suggesting there is a citywide crisis or extensive violence playing out in Los Angeles. Los Angeles District Attorney Nathan Hochman told reporters this week that “99.99% of people” who live in the area “have not committed any illegal acts in connection with this protest whatsoever.”
Breyer’s 36-page ruling on Thursday was a striking broadside against the administration’s approach, with the judge writing that “the continued unlawful militarization” of Los Angeles “inflames tensions with protesters, threatening increased hostilities and loss of life.”
He said that while courts treat presidents’ decisions on foreign policy and national security with great deference, this case involves “domestic use of military force, a matter on which the courts can certainly weigh in.”
Contrary to Trump’s assertions, Breyer wrote that the Los Angeles demonstrations “fall far short of ‘rebellion.’” He said the Trump administration identified instances of people acting violently, but not “a violent, armed, organized, open and avowed uprising against the government as a whole.”
Breyer’s 36-page ruling on Thursday was a striking broadside against the administration’s approach, with the judge writing that “the continued unlawful militarization” of Los Angeles “inflames tensions with protesters, threatening increased hostilities and loss of life.”
He said that while courts treat presidents’ decisions on foreign policy and national security with great deference, this case involves “domestic use of military force, a matter on which the courts can certainly weigh in.”
Contrary to Trump’s assertions, Breyer wrote that the Los Angeles demonstrations “fall far short of ‘rebellion.’” He said the Trump administration identified instances of people acting violently, but not “a violent, armed, organized, open and avowed uprising against the government as a whole.”
In a news conference immediately after the ruling, Newsom echoed the ruling’s language. “There’s no invasion. There’s no rebellion,” he said. “It’s absurd.”
The governor called the issues in the case “a test of democracy.” Trump has continually tested the limits of democracy, he said, but the order “makes clear that he is not above or beyond constitutional constraints.”
In its motion Thursday, California had reiterated that it was seeking only limited relief while the court case unfolds. It asked Breyer to block the Guard troops and Marines “from patrolling the streets of Los Angeles and engaging in activities that pervasively entangle military forces with civilian law enforcement,” saying this was necessary to avoid inflaming tensions in the area.
At the same time, the state’s attorney general contended the Trump administration was offering “a breathtaking vision of unlimited, unreviewable executive power.”
At one point in the hour-long hearing, Breyer — a former Watergate prosecutor and younger brother of retired Supreme Court justice Stephen G. Breyer — brandished a paper copy of the U.S. Constitution, reading aloud from Article II, which describes the powers of the executive branch.
“We’re talking about the president exercising his authority. And the president is of course limited to his authority. That’s the difference between a constitutional government and King George,” he said. “It’s not that a leader can simply say something and it becomes it. It’s a question of a leader — a president or a governor — following the law as set forth in both the Constitution and statutes.”
Brett Shumate, a Justice Department attorney, defended Trump’s actions, arguing that as governor, Newsom is “merely a conduit” for the president’s orders.
“The president doesn’t have to call up the governor and invite him to Camp David and have a summit and negotiate for a week, on what are the terms, we’re going to call up the National Guard in your state and what are the terms of deployment — no,” he said. “There’s one commander in chief, and the states are subservient to the president.”
Shumate later argued that the state’s demand for a restraining order was inappropriate because the federalized troops in Los Angeles were only there to protect federal personnel and property, not to engage in law enforcement or participate in immigration raids.
During a congressional hearing Thursday that focused heavily on the politicization of the U.S. military, Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth, a former Fox News personality and previously an officer in the Army National Guard, refused to commit to following any future judicial orders that might rein in the administration’s domestic agenda — though later he added, “We’re not here to defy a Supreme Court ruling.”
Neither the Justice Department nor the Pentagon immediately responded to requests for comment after the lower court ruling.
Some of the protests that have taken place in Los Angeles since the first immigration raids last Friday have included clashes between protesters and police, sporadic looting and vehicles being set on fire. The Trump administration has portrayed the metropolis as being overwhelmed — despite much of the city and county being completely unaffected — and in need of federal assistance to maintain order.
State and local officials have repeatedly said they can manage the situation and accused the federal government of inflaming tensions by dispatching the military.
“We have a very good relationship with our governor,” Los Angeles Mayor Karen Bass said Thursday afternoon, repeating her point that Trump’s intervention was unnecessary. “If the National Guard is needed, I could have picked up the phone, called the police chief, called the sheriff, and said please make the request, and it would not have been denied.”
The governor said that when he again assumes control of the deployed Guard members, some would return to working on “border security” and working on counterdrug enforcement. Two years ago, Newsom doubled the number of California National Guard troops deployed at the U.S.-Mexico border to help intercept fentanyl and other illicit drugs.
Before the appeals court ruling, Jon Michaels, a law professor at the University of California Los Angeles, said he was watching for what comes next. An order may not deter Trump, Michaels said: He might ignore it, or he could invoke the Insurrection Act, as administration officials have suggested in recent days. Another possibility, Michaels added, would be sharply stepped-up immigration raids that trigger more protests, changing the situation on the ground and providing more justification for military involvement.
“They’re not really looking to de-escalate,” he said of the administration. “This has now become, for better or worse, a signature standoff for Newsom, and I don’t think Trump wants to lose to Gavin Newsom.”
~Brulliard reported from Boulder, Colorado, Berman from Washington and Ables from Seoul. Maeve Reston and Molly Hennessy-Fiske in Los Angeles contributed to this report.
##Donald J Trump is America's President … not gavin newscum - nor any other demon rat politician in barak hussein obama's pocket.
The Court has sided with President Trump: newscum can posture as long as he wats to (and he wants to - his beady eyes are focused on sitting in the White House), and he can dredge up as many lawless obamanite lawyers as he can; BUT, the FACT IS, that the Law is ON President Trump's side on this matter. Things are hopelessly out of control in CA, under newscum and bass's negligence and political posturing's.
Blow hard braggart newscum grabbed a mic and gloated too early - he immediately had a sock stuffed into his fly trap. He lost to President Trump, but is too full of himself to realize that he has lost the battle he foolishly started.
LA RIOT IS LAUNCHING A DEMON RAT intifada
I'LL PLANT MY OWN TREE; Ocean Park-WA
TBI is hard to live with - the mood swings and angry outbursts are tiring and draining.
PTSD is hard to live with, & when compounded by TBI fallout … life can become very hard in a very short period of time.
Holland suffers bouts of TBI combined with PTSD; his injury happened when he was a very young child growing up in a highly dysfunctional and violent home - his older brother smacked him extremely hard in the head, with a baseball bat: sibling rivalry was always out of control in the redmill family network (father, uncles, aunts, siblings, cousins...). TBI is not something that can be cured - it is permanent; and fallout is unpredictable. And, due to the dysfunctional family - both sides of the tree; he was forced at age 14 into premature adulthood, living on his own = additional trauma. Basically there were no mature adults in his life from beginning to end. He has trust, and self-worth issues. He has an over-inflated ego, and a fixation on controlling everything and everyone in his immediate surroundings.
My PTSD issues started when when I was a young child growing up in a highly dysfunctional and violent home. Because I was eventually loved unconditionally, I was able to rise above it and live a very happy life in a very happy marriage for 44 years … but it came to the forefront of my life again when my first Husband, Bob's body, died in the winter of 2018: it was further set into motion with my children's viciously angry abandonment following, which led to a sudden and malicious separation from my beloved grandchildren. I did manage to side-line it as I began to grow into a new life, throughout 2019 - 2023. Before I remarried, I was just coming into my own as a solo lobo feeling competent and secure in who I am - I was beginning to think I could trust some people, and was adding new friends to my very small circle of close friends; my PTSD symptoms had been pretty much put to rest. I was gaining confidence through self-love~self-care; I was feeling happy and worthy of the space I was taking up in the cycle of Life.
But my new husband is a secret keeper due to his familial dysfunctions, and I was not aware of his TBI until we were married and I was getting a first-hand experience of his abrasive mood swings and sudden angry outbursts. He is always sorry afterwards … but the things said and done during those melt-downs are hard to get past even after forgiving.
Wednesday he went too far.
Forgiveness will not cancel the overstep - for that to be laid to rest, he will need to seek Elohim's intervention. Trust has irrevocably been broken, as far as I am concerned.
I find that I cannot trust my new husband's love for me: love does not continually, & selfishly chip away at happiness; or make one feel worthless in relationship hierarchy. A husband should be his wife's safe place: I do not feel that in this marriage. I do not feel that he values my place in his life at all. I do not feel that his presence in my Life … or in this marriage … offers a sanctuary for my heart to rest. There is too much familial drama on his end; and he glories in the crazy train ride. There is too much distancing - concerning everything a normal marriage shares (in normal marriages spouses strive to make a prominent space for each other in their life; are privy to their partner's immediate information, like who their doctors are - especially in cases like Holland's COPD; decisions concerning financial decisions; vacation plans; ect.). But in this seriously warped marriage - his siblings, SIL, & friends hold too much sway in decisions that should only be shared, and decided, between the 2 of us. And there is too much need to have ultimate control over me - this I cannot have, will not tolerate, and refuse to submit to.
So, now he is isolating me from people, thinking that will bring me to heel; but, I am not a dog. Holland may consider all women bitches … but he will find it very hard indeed to break this "bitch". I have teeth - and I am not afraid to show them.
This past Wednesday's actions and outburst is going to be very hard to move on from. Aside from the blatant seize of absolute control & defining change of direction concerning a decision we had agreed on before leaving home; Holland angrily cut me off from in-law-relatives he knows are close to my heart: 2 of his cousins were friends of mine before I even met him; and 1, I met last year on our road tripping; the rest I don't care for, so the spitefulness in that instance of forced isolation is meaningless. Intending to have his way; all the time, about everything, He continues to try to bully me … but I refuse to be controlled.
I've had enough of these childish tirades and cave man tactics.
I am taking space from this marriage that is more like a battlefield than a marriage.
I woke up this morning with this song from Valley of the Dolls running through my thoughts …
So, I looked up 🧐 the lyrics:
I'll Plant My Own Tree song lyrics
I’ll plant my own tree, and I’ll make it grow
My tree will not be just one in a row
My tree will offer shade when strangers go by;
If you’re a stranger, brother - well, so am I!
Come tomorrow, all that I see is my tree.
Oh, lord. What a sight!
Let someone stop me, and I will put up a fight!
It’s my yard, so I will try hard to welcome friends, I have yet to know.
Oh, I’ll plant my own tree!
My own tree … and I’ll make it grow!
I live every day moment-to-moment; but lately the needle seems stuck in the same groove 😟🤦🏻♀️- and it gets tiring 😒 to hear the same thing over and over and over, again 🙄
I'm doing the best I know to do ☝️✝️🕊️, while hoping and 🙏 the needle will move. Soon.
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a common condition that can develop after a traumatic event. It involves symptoms like flashbacks of traumatic events, anxiety fallout in similar situations (like angry shouting, bullying control maneuvers, closed areas with no visible escape routes, ect), a false sense of inadequacy under pressurized circumstances (like angry shouting, bullying control maneuvers, unwarranted silent treatment, & a punishing withdrawal abandonment - even for a brief period of time), avoiding situations, places and activities related to the traumatic event (very difficult to do at this moment, in this living situation).
Holland, in his TBI black moods, trips my dormant PTSD with his loud and angry shouting, and his childish, punishing silent treatments. His need to be in control, and control me, has soured an otherwise good marriage. And at this point, I'm not sure it can be salvaged.
I stay because I live my Life in obedience to Elohim's Will: He literally placed this damaged man in my Life, and short of being a convenient booty call, I will be a wife in obedience to Elohim's Will for my Life.
If Holland wants a full-on Wife, then he needs to become a full-on Husband.
My relationship with Elohim & Yeshua; and my Blogging & FB connections with friends, are my saving grace. The main treatment for PTSD is talk therapy. But my husband does not talk with me - when he is not shouting at me, he talks at me, and around me … but he does not engage in meaningful talk with me. And I cannot talk with my husband. At any time; about anything. Any convo with Holland at all, revolves solely around him, his needs, his wants, and his directives. Period.
It's very hard to live with.
So, I have made the decision to distance myself from the constant non-stop turmoil Holland surrounds himself in, and with.
Living on borrowed time, as I am with asthma and angina complications; I don't have time to waste.
I am not going to be making time for any more chipping away - I'm going to plant my own tree … and watch it grow. Holland can join me under it's shade - or he can continue to throw shade my way. But I am going to make the most of what is left of my Life and enjoy it: with, or without, him in it: the choice is his.
First thing I did this morning when I got downstairs, was to open the front door - wide, and air the house; stale air is not good for the brain cells or the lungs. Holland, upstairs in bed, would be warm enough under the blankets. I wanted fresh air in my immediate environment. The door was open for about an hour.
Holland, when he woke up and drank his mug of coffee, immediately left; without a word of where he was going - again, this is typical redmill men behavior. Common courtesy never crosses their minds, and their women "don't need to know" where they are going, why they are going, who .. or where, they are going to. I've reached the point in this toxic relationship, that I really don't care anymore; he was gone for a couple hours, and the house was blessedly peaceful and quiet.
I listened to some music, watched a Congressional hearing, did a little knitting - and made a quick and easy Supper:
VAL'S 4PATRIOTS ALFREDO w-CHICKEN Recipe; Ocean Park-WA: (https://roadgypsiesvalandholland.blogspot.com/2025/06/vals-4patriots-alfredo-w-chicken-recipe.html)
Nothing, and no one, is going to stop me from finding peaceful moments in my days.