Our lives have changed so much since January 7th, 2023 ... New Marriage/New Life: the blending of two into one, gets dicey at times - daily life on the road adds more dicey complications. This is our story of our life in our 5th wheel RV Home. I post about anything & everything, and if what I post can help someone else, I'm glad for the experience. But from sunrise to sunset, we live our Life for US.
NEW ATTITUDE
Friday, June 27, 2025
VAL'S 4-Patriots OATMEAL APPLE CRISP; Shabbat~Ocean Park-WA
A HEALTHY MARRIAGE
Any couple with a healthy marriage that has lasted 20, 30, even 50 years didn’t just stumble into happiness by chance. It wasn’t luck. It wasn’t fairy dust.
And it sure wasn’t easy. That kind of longevity doesn’t come without a fight....a beautiful, exhausting, intentional fight. The kind where both people decide, day after day, that the relationship is worth the effort. That love is worth protecting. That the bond they share is worth more than pride, ego, or temporary emotions.
Behind every couple still holding hands after decades together are stories of sacrifice. Of choosing each other even on the days when it would’ve been easier to walk away. Of forgiveness....real forgiveness, not the kind you speak but don’t live out.
They rebuilt trust after it was broken. They kept dating each other long after the wedding rings were exchanged.
They made time for deep conversations when it would’ve been simpler to go to bed angry. They learned how to apologize without justifying.
How to listen without interrupting. How to communicate without attacking. How to hold space for each other without letting the world tear them apart.
Marriage, real marriage, is hard. It requires blood, sweat, and tears.
There will be seasons that test you. Days when love feels like a choice more than a feeling. Times when one of you will carry more than your share while the other learns how to grow. And yes, there will be moments when pride begs you to shut down....but you’ll choose to open up instead.
Because a good marriage doesn’t magically happen. It’s built....through storms, through silence, through uncomfortable growth. It's nurtured through emotional labor, through showing up when you're tired, and loving even when you're hurting.
And those couples who still look at each other with love in their eyes after all those years? They’re not lucky. They’re intentional. They put in the work...365 days a year.
So no, you don’t get a fairytale without the fight. You don’t get forever without sacrifice. You don’t get peace without choosing it daily. But when two people commit to doing the work...together...what they create is far more beautiful than any fantasy.
They build something real. Something that lasts. Something worth every tear, every argument, every hard conversation… and every single moment of love that follows.
FAWNING MAKES ME NERVOUS~Trump World
I do like President Trump - I always have since his first interview decades ago: his words were the same then, as they are now; he has not deviated at all - except to exit the democrat party before it was infiltrated and overrun by soulless and zombie-minded lunatics.
BUT
All this fawning makes me nervous; and I literally sat straight up in my seat when the Saudi King called him "The President Of The World".
President Trump is the Man of The Hour 😎 - but, he is NOT Almighty God, and all the fawning and praising … on top of the Office of Faith in the White House, run by an adulterous/blasphemous apostate who bows to islam; smacks too much of the heralding in 😳 of the Anti-Christ 😟.
I am NOT saying that Trump is the Anti-Christ, what I am saying is what is happening looks very much the setting of the stage FOR the Anti-Christ to play his hand at some point.
I'm NOT HAPPY when I see 🧐 or hear 👂 things like this 😡