GOD KNEW I NEEDED YOU

Monday, January 5, 2026

STRAW VIOLINS, ROAMING T-REX & TIRED LION; Coalinga-CA


January 4th: Sunday's are my husband's Day: I observe a 24-hour Messianic Shabbat (and Holland is loosening up about that as we enter our 3rd coupled year) - and knowing how Sunday people are (because I was doing Sunday Fellowships for a couple years before I went full on Messianic), I always make sure to keep Sunday's free for my husband to do his thing 😎 - he chose to enjoy it by waiting the rain out, then taking me on our favored loop drive 🚘, which favored us with a big, fat, rainbow showing … and ended up at In-N-Out Burgers in Kettleman-CA, where we bought a calorie-laden supper to enjoy by the dash light glow; it felt like an unplanned date night 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

Coalinga-Avenal-Kettleman Oil Fields-CA
Shafts of light breaking thru clouds; Hydrill Oil Fields - the Hydrill Oil Fields are associated with the Kettleman Hills, which are located northeast of Avenal, California. The Kettleman North Dome Oil Field is a significant oil field in this region, and the term "Hydrill" refers to the oil fields around Avenal, including the Kettleman Hills.
Skyline Blvd. Rd thru the Hydrill Oil Fields; Avenal-CA
Oh 👀! A big, fat shafted rainbow end poking thru the clouds.
Still visible on the freeway, on our way to Kettleman-CA - but, totally faded away by the time we reached Kettleman.
In-N-Out Burgers in Kettleman-CA; we like the 1950's vibe that perfectly matches the 1950's juicy burger taste 😁
In-N-Out Burger: Exploring a California Classic's Humble Beginnings:  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAUbXNl5OrU)

There is a lot of lip service (besides biting down on a juicy burger) concerning In-N-Out in CA … and I admit that we, too, were concerned about losing this tasty treat to the demonrat socialist agenda toxicity; but the real story comes from the mouth of the owner, herself, in this interview:

‘We’re not leaving’: In-N-Out responds to rumors about California exit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5pS7aGPbpM

T-Rex cloud formation 😉 I can't help myself - I'm a dino freak & I have a wild imagination; Kettleman-CA
Taking the long way home 😘

Back home, my big guy 🔑❤️ snoozed 😴, while I settled in with an online movie 💻🎬 & finished up the last little item that will be going into Hanford with us, when we go that way - possibly next week. Brenda's funeral arrangements have been set 📅, and Holland wants to wear jeans instead of his standard wear shorts & tee; so, we will likely be driving into Hanford sometime next week.

MOD WIP  for the Hanford drop …
Original version~The Tokens - 'The Lion Sleeps Tonight' lyrics: 
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZwHodpLtwc&list=RDJZwHodpLtwc&start_radio=1)
The rain dance is sapping what's left of our lagging energy 🦁💘

This is the version my personal lion entertains … tired, or not 😂🤣🤠💎

And, I love my 'God-thing-gift'; bless his heart - tired or not & young at heart - like me 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

'The Lion Sleeps Tonight'~Peyton Parrish Cover: 
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4nMm-y3TYU&list=RDs4nMm-y3TYU&start_radio=1)

Sunday, January 4, 2026

SITTIN' & WAITIN'; Coalinga-CA


Just sittin' here in our cozy little home on wheels, listening to the rainstorm blow in … and feeling very, very good about where our Life is at 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

In the moment.


It’s no secret that staying active is important for healthy aging, but not every workout needs to involve breaking a sweat 🏋️‍♀️

The Lying Down Single Leg Kick exercise is generally considered safe for a senior woman to perform, provided she is comfortable with the exercise and can maintain proper form. It is important to listen to her body and stop if she feels any discomfort or pain.

Lying Down Single Leg Kick; Do 2 sets of 5 repetitions per leg for a total of 10 per leg

Pilates leg kick - or lying down single-leg kick, looks deceptively gentle … but this one simple move can do wonders for your hip mobility and core strength, challenging the hamstrings, glutes, promotes flexibility in the hip flexors & shoulder girdle stability; which are essential for healthy movement and pain-free activities. The exercise can help in addressing any muscle imbalances between the left and right sides, contributing to a more symmetrical physique. It is a valuable addition to any fitness regimen, whether at home or in the gym.


Hand and Grip Strength exercises are essential for day-to-day activities like opening jars, buttoning shirts, carrying groceries, and even supporting balance. The good news? These simple exercises can be done anywhere, any time.

Hands; 10–15 repetitions per hand

Last night my hands really ached from all the busy work they have been engaged in, and I was refusing Holland's offer to do the dishes for me - being a bachelor for a couple decades, he knows how to do housework chores: being in a marriage relationship now, I prefer to do the housework chores. So, when I refused for the 3rd time his offer to do the dishes to give my overworked hands a rest … he cracks off with, "okay - be a female chauvinist pig, then." And I burst out laughing for a good 5 minutes, saying, "Yes, I suppose I am. I guess I do have the attitude that no one can do these things as well as I can & I bogart the activities to get them done the way I want them done. But I gotta say, you are getting away with saying things no one else would have dared - and I'm laughing while you are getting away with it: also, an unusual happening. In this marriage, I'm relaxed in response to your 'woman' comments - because I know now that you are not considering me a domestic slave or treating me like a bonded whore, as the redmill side of your family does … it's more in line with the Harris side of your family, and having met the Harris men, it's not a mean term used in a mean manner: I can accept that. And now, I am actually laughing in response to your 'female chauvinist' quip - mainly because I can't argue the point." And, he's learning to take teasing comments coming from my end, in stride, too.

We have finally arrived at a comfortable place in our marital relationship 💓

Allowing ourselves to loosen our personal grips with “control over my own life” is kinda scary - but it's also kinda exciting in it's own way, as neither of us have ever walked this particular path before. Aging allows freedoms youth shuts down out of preservation defiance.

A relaxed unification is strengthening 🤝😘

Walking together into 2026 looks to be encouraging 👏


And it's a welcome occurrence 💞

T.G. Sheppard – ‘Blank Check (On My Love)’ song:  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ECJHbX58gYk)

When weather ☔️ allowed, I watched a Clint Walker movie 🎬, while I finished up a Hanford drop 🎁 item:

Current WIP
Yellowstone Kelly: 
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X2znhDUzh5s)

Most of what happened today was me sitting and waiting 🙄 sketchy internet connection out: not sure it's all server trouble - I'm pretty sure my laptop is misfiring 😑; a new one 💰💻 may be needed.

Saturday, January 3, 2026

THE SMALLEST ACT OF KINDNESS

She weighed just 68 pounds, her hair had turned white from starvation, and she had reached the point where surviving no longer felt possible—until an American soldier opened a door for her, and everything changed.

May 7, 1945. Volary, Czechoslovakia.

Gerda Weissmann could no longer walk. After more than six years of persecution, ghettos, forced labor camps, and a death march that stretched over 300 miles, her body had finally given out. Snow still clung to the ground. Her feet were wrapped in scraps of cloth because her shoes had disintegrated long ago. Each step felt like knives cutting into frozen bone.

She was only 20 years old, but she looked decades older. Malnutrition had drained the color from her skin and turned her once-dark hair completely white. She weighed less than many children. Her body was barely holding on.

What broke her, however, was not just the hunger or the cold. It was the absence of everyone she loved.

Her parents were gone. Her brother was gone. Friends from her hometown. Girls she had worked beside in labor camps. One by one, they had disappeared—shot, gassed, beaten, or left behind in the snow. Gerda survived when nearly everyone else did not, and she no longer knew whether that was a gift or a punishment.

The death march began in January 1945, when Nazi guards evacuated camps ahead of advancing Soviet forces. Hundreds of starving women were forced onto the roads in winter conditions, with no destination except exhaustion and death. Anyone who fell behind was shot. Bodies were left in ditches as warnings.

Gerda watched women collapse who had survived years of camps only to die days before liberation. By May, only about 120 women remained from a group that once numbered in the hundreds. They had marched for months, through hunger, snow, and terror.

Then, suddenly, they heard engines.

American vehicles.

The SS guards fled without warning, abandoning the women entirely. Liberation had arrived, but Gerda felt nothing. Hope had been beaten out of her long ago. She stood near the entrance of an abandoned bicycle factory, barely conscious, barely standing.

A jeep stopped nearby. American soldiers climbed out.

One of them walked toward the entrance. His name was Lieutenant Kurt Klein. He was 25 years old. Though he wore an American uniform, he spoke German fluently. He was Jewish, born in Germany, and had escaped to the United States in 1937. His parents had not been so lucky.

Kurt had liberated camps before. He had seen starvation, death, and despair. He thought he was prepared for anything.

Then he saw Gerda.

A skeletal young woman with white hair, hollow eyes, and rags wrapped around her feet. She swayed as she stood, barely upright. In that moment, something inside him shifted.

Kurt walked up to the door of the factory.

And he opened it for her.

He did not shout. He did not command. He did not rush her or touch her. He simply held the door open and gestured for her to go first.

For six years, Gerda had been shoved through doors—into trains, camps, barracks, and death. For six years, no one had treated her as a human being.

She later said, “He was the first person in six years who opened a door for me.”

That single gesture restored something the Nazis had tried to erase: dignity.

Kurt spoke gently. He asked if she was Jewish. He asked if there was anything he could do for her. No one had asked her that in years.

Gerda was taken to a hospital, where doctors were unsure she would survive. Her organs were failing. Her body was dangerously weak. Recovery seemed impossible.

Kurt kept coming back.

He brought food. He talked with her. He listened. He treated her not as a victim, but as a person. He told her about his own losses, including the parents he would never see again, murdered at Auschwitz.

They shared grief. They shared understanding. Slowly, Gerda began to recover.

As her body healed, something else grew.

They fell in love.

Not a fairy tale love that erased pain, but a bond forged between two people who had seen humanity at its worst and still believed in something better.

Kurt asked her to marry him.

In June 1946, just over a year after liberation, they were married in Paris. Gerda wore a wedding dress. She was no longer a prisoner, no longer a number. She was choosing a future.

They moved to the United States, settled in Buffalo, New York, and built a family. But they also made a promise: to speak for those who could not.

Gerda wrote her memoir, All But My Life. Together, she and Kurt spent decades educating students, soldiers, and leaders about the Holocaust. They spoke not from hatred, but from truth.

Their marriage lasted 57 years.

Kurt died in 2002. Gerda held his hand, just as he had once held the door for her.

Today, Gerda Weissmann Klein is remembered not only as a survivor, but as a witness. She turned unimaginable loss into testimony, and testimony into purpose.

Gerda Weissmann Klein: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gerda_Weissmann_Klein

One opened door became a lifetime of love, learning, and remembrance.

That is not just survival.

That is defiance.

That is victory.

Friday, January 2, 2026

FAST DAYS & TONING EXERCISES; Coalinga-CA

With the crazy weather, the unexpected deaths, ever-changing plans due to weather whims, and the general hemmed-in feeling; there hasn't been much to be excited about lately; but the savoring of hot buttered toast, handcraft time, interesting clouds floating by, a text from friends, a new show popping up on YouTube (with actors I enjoy) that I have never seen before, & a wonderfully flavored hot cup of coffee … goes a long way in chasing the humdrums, away 😉

Starting in October, we have been running the heaters non-stop when the sun goes down: nearly all day long in November, and we broke out the electric blanket around Christmas time:

Been getting a lot of use out of this, this week; chill and windy, here.

The weather is cold 😱, and the electric bill is outrageous 💸 - the electric costs as much as the space rent. Holland says "we are leaving here the end of this month 🗓️🎯, no matter what. I will find a way through 🚘🗺️🏔️🚧 to sunnier skies and cheaper living expenses, come hell or high water." He says it costs more to run the heaters, than it does to run the air conditioners - I think it's an even-draw … but, we'll do what he thinks we need to do; and I will stand with him on the issue.

I like our vagabond lifestyle, and Holland is relaxing into the retirement life - he's chomping at the bit himself, to be back in motion finding some exciting adventures to explore. He's as tight with money as I am; and we'd both rather spend the money moving from state to state, and enjoying life in the moment,

The high water is a very serious thing, e.v.e.r.y.w.h.e.r.e., right now 😳🌊🚜

Most of the roads we have traveled … and need to find an alternate route around 🔄 to get from here to there, look pretty much like this one - the now destroyed roadway; that we traveled with Independence in October of 2024, on our way to Quartzsite-AZ

My October 14, 2024 Post ~ JOURNEYING AMONG GIANTS~Gustine-CA to Quartzsite-AZ: (https://roadgypsiesvalandholland.blogspot.com/2024/10/journeying-among-giantsgustine-ca-to.html)

Today's CA News Post - CALIFORNIA MOUNTAIN HIGHWAY USED BY MILLIONS 'DESTROYED' BY HEAVY RAINFALL: https://roadgypsiesvalandholland.blogspot.com/2026/01/california-mountain-highway-used-by.html

This year, we will also be revisiting Quartzsite, but we may have to find new digs to park at because we can't raise a hoot or a holler from the Pit Stop 🤷‍♀️ - where we normally have a standing appointment ✅ for a couple weeks. They may have been sold, or gone out of business 😒 (which is hard to imagine, given all they had to offer besides a parking space). That makes me sad 😔, because I liked watching 👀 the changing RV traffic outside my kitchen window all day long, every day we were taking up space, there.

On another note: the intermediate fasting, combined with toning exercises, is working wonderfully 💪😁 our bodies healthier, and my clothes are fitting a little looser.

'Fast' Days scheduled 📌; & they are working for both of us.
10 or 15 reps is sufficient for a senior woman.

Back Leg Raises (15 reps/per leg) = are okay for senior women over 60. They are a beneficial exercise for building leg strength and improving mobility, to prevent falls and maintain independence. These exercises are low-impact and can be performed safely with proper form and support.

The back leg raises exercise primarily targets the rectus abdominis, which is the front part of the abdomen, and the core muscles. It also engages the hip flexors, glutes, calves, and hamstrings. The exercise is effective for building strength and stability in these muscle groups, contributing to overall lower body strength and injury prevention.

For a reasonably fit senior woman, it is recommended to perform 15 repetitions for each leg in a set of back leg raises. This exercise can be done by standing behind a chair and slowly lifting the right leg straight back and holding that position for one second without bending the knees. After one second, bring the leg back down and repeat the process 15 times for each leg. This routine can help protect bone health and prevent falls, contributing to overall well-being.

Leg Swings (15 to 20 reps/per leg) = are generally safe and beneficial for senior women over 60. They are a low-impact dynamic stretching exercise that can enhance hip mobility, improve balance, and reduce the risk of falls. Leg swings can also strengthen muscles in the hips, legs, and core, making them a valuable addition to a senior's fitness routine.

Leg swings primarily target the hip flexors, hamstrings, glutes, and adductors. These muscles are engaged through controlled, rhythmic swings, which help loosen up the hips, hamstrings, glutes, and adductors. This exercise is particularly beneficial for warming up the lower body before workouts.

For a reasonably fit senior woman, performing 10-15 swings per leg in each direction is recommended as a warm-up. For mobility, 2-3 rounds of 15-20 reps per leg with a focus on smooth range is suggested. Before explosive workouts or runs, 1-2 rounds of both variations to prep the hips for full range can be beneficial. It's important to use a sturdy support and hold onto a stable surface to ensure safety and prevent falls.

Side Leg Raises (15 reps/per leg) = are okay for senior women over 60. These exercises are beneficial for strengthening the lower body, improving balance, coordination, and flexibility. They target multiple muscle groups, especially the glutes, hip abductors, and inner thighs, which are important for stability and performance in all workout routines and daily activities. Side leg raises can also be modified to fit any fitness level, making them a great exercise for women over 60 looking to enhance their strength and reduce the risk of injury.

The Side Leg Raises exercise primarily targets the hip abductors, which include the gluteus medius and minimus. These muscles are responsible for moving the leg away from the body's midline. Additionally, the exercise engages the tensor fasciae latae (TFL), quadriceps, and core muscles such as the transverse abdominis (TVA), internal/external obliques (IO/EO), and erector spinae (ESP) complex. The core muscles provide stabilization to ensure proper form and protect against potential injuries due to improper technique or over-exertion. Overall, Side Leg Raises are an effective way to strengthen both upper and lower body musculature while improving balance and stability.

Side Bend Stretches (15 reps/per side) = can be beneficial for senior women over 60, but it is essential to approach them with caution. It is generally not recommended for seniors with osteoporosis or osteopenia (low bone mineral density that increases the risk of osteoporosis and fractures) - or those with scoliosis or disc herniation; these exercises can put excessive pressure on the spine, leading to a higher risk of vertebral compression fractures.

Side bends are a lateral (side-to-side) core movement that targets the oblique muscles, the muscles that run along the sides of your waist. Unlike crunches or planks, which emphasize forward flexion or static hold, side bends focus on lateral flexion of the spine. This makes them essential for building a balanced, functional core that can move and stabilize in all directions.

The Side Bend Stretches exercise primarily targets the internal and external obliques, which are the muscles that run along the sides of the torso. These muscles help you rotate your body in everyday activities. Additionally, the exercise also engages the rectus abdominis, the long muscle that runs vertically down the front of the abdomen, and the erector spinae, which runs along the spine. The intercostal muscles are also targeted, especially when deep breaths are taken while in the side-bend position. Lastly, the quadratus lumborum is engaged, which is a deep lower back muscle that connects the pelvis to the spine and your bottom rib. This exercise helps boost flexibility and strength in the muscles along the sides of the waist and back, making daily movements easier and more comfortable.

Intercostal Muscles; expand and contract the chest cavity = breathing.

Standing Side-to-Side Twists (15 reps) = are generally considered safe and beneficial for senior women over 60. These exercises can help improve balance, strength, and confidence, which are crucial for maintaining independence and safety in daily activities. However, it is important to perform these exercises with caution and under supervision, especially if there are any concerns about balance or coordination. Always listen to your body and stop if you experience any discomfort or pain during the exercise.

The standing side-to-side twist exercise primarily targets the oblique muscles, which are responsible for rotational movements and lateral flexion of the torso. This exercise also engages the rectus abdominis, transverse abdominis, and lower back muscles such as the erector spinae, which help stabilize the spine during the twisting motion. Additionally, the exercise activates the glutes and hip muscles to maintain balance and support the body's weight. By incorporating standing twists into a workout routine, individuals can improve core strength, enhance spinal flexibility, and promote better posture, making it a versatile exercise for overall functional fitness.

Standing Knee-to-Elbows (15 reps/per side) = are generally considered safe and beneficial for senior women over 60. These exercises can help improve core strength, balance, and overall stability. However, it is important to start with low repetitions and gradually increase the number as she becomes more comfortable and stronger.

The standing knee-to-elbows exercise primarily targets the rectus abdominis, obliques, and hip flexors. These muscles work together to stabilize the torso and facilitate the upward motion of the knee toward the elbow. The shoulder muscles, including the deltoids and rotator cuff, also play a role in stabilizing the upper body and maintaining proper form during the movement. Additionally, the quadriceps and hamstrings contribute to controlling the leg movement, making this exercise a comprehensive workout that enhances strength, coordination, and flexibility across several key muscle groups.

Standing Toe Touch (15 reps) = generally considered safe for senior women over 60. Before beginning any workout routine, especially one that involves deep hamstring or spinal stretches, always include a brief warm-up. March in place, perform arm circles with arms outstretched and do a few gentle torso twists. This primes your muscles for deeper stretches and supports proper circulation.

A standing toe touch might seem like a fairly easy and safe exercise, and it’s not hard to do and not very intensive either … but, standing toe touches require a lot of bending over.

These exercises can improve flexibility, mobility, and posture, which are beneficial for overall health and independence. However, it is essential to perform these exercises with caution and listen to the body. Seniors should avoid excessive bending, heavy running, and intense exertion, as these can be too strenuous for their bodies. It is recommended to perform standing toe touch exercises in a seated position if they feel dizzy or disoriented.

The standing toe touch exercise primarily engages the hamstrings, calves, glutes, and lower back muscles. This exercise is beneficial for improving flexibility and mobility, especially in the hamstrings and lower back. It also helps in reducing lower back tension and promoting better posture. Additionally, the exercise can enhance blood flow and circulation, which is beneficial for overall health and muscle recovery.

Standing Toe Touch - 10 to 12 reps

CALIFORNIA MOUNTAIN HIGHWAY USED BY MILLIONS 'DESTROYED' BY HEAVY RAINFALL

~Story by Erin Rode

We have been over this roadway together, once; Holland has traveled over it most of his life.


{{Toward the end of August, outdoorsy Angelenos rejoiced when the entirety of the region's 66-mile forest highway finally reopened after a yearlong section closure. But now, just a few months later, a chunk of the highway is already closed again - and likely will be for a while.

Angeles Crest Highway, also known as state Route 2, is currently closed between Cedar Springs, near its intersection with the long-closed northern end of state Route 39, all the way east to where the highway hits state Route 138 near the Cajon Pass. In total, it's a roughly 27-mile closure, pocked by washed-out roads, crumbled asphalt and other recent storm damage.


Angeles Crest Highway runs roughly east-west through Angeles National Forest, stretching from the suburb of La Cañada Flintridge to just past the small mountain town of Wrightwood. The highway provides access to ski areas, hiking trails and picnic areas, and serves as the primary route that millions of Angelenos use each year to visit the vast national forest that's often called LA's extended backyard.

Angeles Crest Highway damaged by recent storm:  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0-c6XpCMd0Y)

Before reopening in August, a roughly 10-mile stretch in the middle of Angeles Crest Highway had been closed since the winter of 2022-2023, when "relentless storms" collapsed roadways and caused rockslides, according to Caltrans. It took years to repair the highway, complicated by the September 2024 Bridge Fire, which caused additional damage.

Now it seems that 2025's late summer reopening was short-lived.

Initial photos of this winter's new storm damage to Angeles Crest Highway certainly indicate that another extended closure could be in the cards. December storms "caused significant damage to the roadbed in at least four locations," Caltrans posted on social media Tuesday, with photos showing large chunks of the roadway missing and asphalt broken and lifted up. "ANGELES CREST HIGHWAY IS DESTROYED," wrote Mike Leum, assistant director at Los Angeles County's Sheriff's Department, in an Instagram post Monday.


For now, at least, the closure appears to mark the end of a brief but glorious four-month period when the road was fully accessible. But it's far from the first or the last time that construction crews will battle Mother Nature to coerce a winding road through the ever-changing San Gabriel Mountains. Building the road between 1929 and 1956 required nearly 1,000 pounds of dynamite every day - and Southern California road crews and political officials have been struggling to keep it constantly open ever since.}}

NEW YEAR 2026; Coalinga-CA

This Amaryllis is amazing - it just keeps blooming with renewed vigor! And we are going to be just like it, in 2026 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 
We are working our way through our Bucket List List … as the weather, allows.