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Monday, December 1, 2025

DECEMBER VIBES; Coalinga-CA

This morning we'd be driving 🚘 into Hanford to visit Holland's Uncle George ❤️, & cousin Brenda 😘 … then over to Hobby Lobby, where I'm hoping to find skeins of needed yarn to finish my WIP 🀞 - the black, red, yellow, & green won't be hard to find, but the pink ombre & sparkly white only shows up during the Fall & Winter holiday season: I hope there will be some left to snag.

Holland wasn't snapping the whip to be out of the house at dawn, so I had time to put some color on my face 😊

Temple Repair Kit.
Sparkly 'Highlight' eyelids; 'Sparkly Black' for upper liner, 'Green' for lower liner; 'Auburn' Brow Gel; 'Glam Brown' Mascara; 'Neutre Enflamme' Cheek Cream; & 'Cherry Flash' L'OrΓ©al Lipgloss.

Neither the highway …

We reside in Fresno County-CA
Chill enough for a jacket, not cold enough for a heavy coat.

… nor the freeway were very busy, so we were able to make good time.

We will be shopping and visiting in Kings County-CA

We spent about an hour at George's, and around noon Brenda asked if we'd be staying for lunch: we both passed - with Holland saying, "Thanks, but I have to take Val over to the yarn barn …" & Brenda said, "What? Where's the Yarn Barn?" I started laughing, and said, "It's the Hobby Lobby store - but he calls it the yarn barn." And with laughter trailing, we parted with hugs all around.

I did get to Hobby Lobby - and left empty handed because the yarn aisles had significantly shrunk to 2; and those were pathetic offerings. So, Holland drove me across the way to Michaels Craft & Art Store, where I found skeins of black, red, yellow, & green; but again the pink ombre & sparkly white were nowhere in sight. When I climbed into Betsy's cab & saw Holland was struggling with pain, I said, "If I have to, I can just put this project aside until holiday yarn hits the shelves again next Fall. I have yarn for other projects to keep my busy." He said we'll be going back into Hanford again to take care of some 4x maintenance, and maybe I can find what I need at Wal*Mart there. Maybe.

An hour on the road every day doesn't bother me, and if that works best for Holland pain-wise, I'm 100% agreeable if that works for him: it’s not about doing it all in one fell swoop … it’s about finding peace in unhurried ways that make each day feel warm and whole. And, the back and forth drives can be counted as a getting out of the house activity for me πŸ‘Œ

Back home, the yarn was stashed until needed.

Yarn purchased at Michael's Craft Store in Hanford-CA~2/3rd's of what's needed.

And when I went online, I saw I had a PM waiting - I opened it and couldn't believe what I was reading 😳 It was from a redheaded nutcase Bob & I had cut out of our life, 10 years ago. The angry tirade was inexcusable. The message was inappropriate. The unwanted intrusion was highly inflammatory. I debated for several minutes the best way to respond πŸ€” How the heck was he able to jump my safety precautions? No one can access my FB Page without my consent - how was he able to tap my Page and harass me with his craziness? I could have shot an angry reply back at him. I could have singed his ears with the same intensity of the twisted PM. I could have reported him to the FB Team. Instead, I surprised myself by calmly erasing the crazy talk PM, and blocking him. He won't be able to jump that safety precaution.

Holland stretched out and napped for a while, and I worked a few muscles before starting supper:

Stepper = 3-5x week, 10-15 mins.; Toning exercises (with or without weights), 3-5x week, 10 to 15 min.; Cardio Mini Cycle = 5-7x week, 30-60 min.
Star Stretch Toe Touch Exercise = 10-12 repetitions of the standing star toe touch exercise per leg, for 2 to 3 sets
Back & Shoulder Toning = 2-3 sets of 8-15 repetitions, performing them 2-3 times a day or  3 times a week.
Assisted Chin Tuck = 8 to 10 repetitions, holding for about 5 seconds each, and can perform 3 to 4 sets per day.

As I was bustling around the kitchen, my husband shocked me by asking me if I wanted a little Christmas tree. What on earth? Christmas does not bring out warm and fuzzy feelings in him - he hasn't said anything about the little bit of Christmas I spread around the house … but I know he's not into the festivities, so I keep it light and sparse. All I can think of is the string of twinkle lights hung along the length of the kitchen push out, & lending December leftover vibes all year long when I plug them in, must be working on him, to loosen him up a bit. A little lit tree πŸŽ„?

Not this year - but maybe next year πŸ‘©‍❤️‍πŸ’‹‍πŸ‘¨


My husband just gave me a "WOW!" moment.

There’s something so special about living a quiet little life. Slow mornings, simple joys, and settled routines that bring us more happiness than we could have imagined.

Last night, I managed to finish that Clive Cussler book πŸ“– I've struggled πŸ˜‘ to finish; so, tonight I'll start a new one - hopefully πŸ™ this one won't be a hassle to get through:

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